A new begining for us

So now that i've spent some time discussing what i WILL not deal with. I can now begin on the positive things. I can focus on those who want to be helped. focus on bringing the positive and the love back into yourself. I know it was a negative blog to begin with. (It was brought to my attention) BUT. I  had to set things straight before.

To save me some time, but most of all to save you some time. if you wanted to hear lovely fairtytales. You were wasting your time with me. :) I am going to try to post more often in order to touch on more subjects.  I hope everyone is having a wonderful day and i hope everyone is looking forward to some positive things coming from me. :)  It's going to be still real and to the point. I just won't be focusing on the clients who DONT want to help themselves. I will be writing for those of you who can use the help and the energy coming from me... I look forward to hearing from you :)

*Love Life*

WHO & WHEN

The one thing that confuses me about some clients, is when they come to me and say " I don't have a specific partner BUT.. When will i get married and with WHO" Now.. When Will you get married, I can answer because I can see this. now with WHO? You really going to sit there and ask me to describe and give you a name of the person your going to marry in 10 years from now?....


Seriously. There's a lot of things that I can help clients with but come to me with some serious questions. Things that can make your life, better. something that can empower you and your life. don't ask me about who your going to marry, Don't ask me to name your TOWN to prove I can connect with you.
Testing a reader is not a good thing to do. It seriously, makes you look like your not serious about wanting to get real answers for real problems. by testing i don't mean making sure, the reader is accurate but that whole "What color are my boxers" question is OLD!!! Quite frankly, ethical readers won't bother reading for clients who play these games. I'm ONE OF THEM. Get real or find someone who will lie to you and play your games.

Celebrities..coming back for you? PLEASE!

I'm writing this with no intentions of being disrespectful towards clients nor friends. I'm being completely honest here. If you truly believe that your soul mate is a  famous movie actor, musician that died in the last 5years that will re-born in the next year in order to come be with you in another body you have to seriously question if you need a counselor and not a psychic. IF and its a BIG IF. That was the case. spirit is born again in the body of a child, how on earth would you even pursue that relationship without being a pedophile, seriously?? Get your headset right..... I am tired of false psychics and false readers, giving these people false hope about things are not likely to happen just to make a dollar. I mean can you imagine how many times over the years is someone going to come to you to see if MJ is going to come back to be with you... SERIOUSLY? Get a grib and focus on YOUR LIFE and YOUR BEING HAPPY without these celebrities and fantasies of celebrities. I'm not saying its NOT possible  but the reality of things is.... MOVE ON

Being an advisor online

Has brought so much happiness into my life. Sure, there are days when I want to scream. But the days that  I am happy are far more  in abundance. I have met incredible people who share my abilities and my work and understand me. Coming from different countries, different cultures. Different ages, ethnic backgrounds and cultures. I have found trues friends and found some people who i can't stand but learn something along the way.  As far as the clients go, It's so many people in this world that need help and guidance and would not be able to find answers to their questions if it wasn't for those of us who do,this work online. I really believe wholeheartedly that they are grateful at the end of the day for meeting, us as well.....

Its amazing to know that you can read for someone in Australia, Japan, Usa and still be as accurate and connected as if someone was in your living room or your kitchen. It's amazing how powerful the mind and the heart and soul are when it comes to wanting to help and guide someone in the right direction. Those of us who take pride in helping people day by day really do it because we care, regardless of what people may say

Suicidal clients

There are some clients who come to us, daily that really need a psychologist.  The moment a client tells us of suicidal thoughts. The need/want to die or harm themselves or others. We need to remove ourselves from their journey and guide them towards a psychologist, counselor or even have them call 911 and find immediate help. It's one thing to be depressed and fed up, for a day or two. It happens to all of us. But when someone is speaking about dying and just trying to end their life over something as a relationship, child, parent, school this is someone who truly needs some psychological help. sure, if we wanted too we could really help them for a day or so but as soon as those feelings re-appear then they need the whole treatment all over again. I cannot speak for every expert but i do not want someone's life in my hands. That is to much responsibility for me.

I am here to help people on their Journeys when they are ready to make positive changes in their own lives and want me as a compass. as a map. not as the driver. I'll help you fuel your car but i won't drive that motha for you....  Please,  Psychics. Clairvoyants, healers and mediums. Be careful on how you treat people who have suicidal tendencies. 


 If you or someone you know, is/having suicidal thoughts please call the number below.. if it's extreme emergency please dial 911

• Call 1-800-SUICIDE / 1-800-784-2433
• Call 1-800-273-TALK / 1-800-273-8255

Can I get a connection?

Can you be a bit more specific, please?  Let me explain something to some of you....   A connection is something that I can give you ( details on a situation, speaking of something going on in your life that i should know nothing about that you can confirm) A connection is not telling you an answer to a question that you have no idea the answer yourself. How, can I possibly provide a connection when your question is " Does Bill love me" please give me information and an answer as a connection. HMM NO!

I  am not going to be giving you free information and free readings just because you think you are smart enough to con me into giving you information. Whoever invented that "connection" scenario was a whole lot of wrong. We may be taboo a bit still in some places known as psychics but we are no fools.  I can only speak for myself here but I very rarely read for free. It may happen from time to time in order to help a friend or even to offer advice quickly to someone who is in need.

This does not mean, I'm about to give it up, for free. Lately there has been  a serious increase in people contacting me wanting information then telling me "show me connection please"  I am going to warn you in advance. You won't get a reply from me and more than likely your going to get blocked also.  You've been warned. Please dont try the game with me

Set a goal.. watch yourself achieve it

There are so many times in life here we stop ourselves from achieving our dreams because of our own personal fears. What if I fail? What if i cannot make it? What if I don't like it? What if you DONT TRY. YOU WILL NEVER KNOW. There's a lot of things that you have to realize. Your dreams, Your wants and needs they are all things you've chosen for your path before being born here on earth. This means that your going to Go through this pre-planned journey for yourself. This means that your going to go through a lot of ups and downs but this is all something that is going to make your life, complete when it comes to life lessons.  We all say how someone is trying to stop us, someone is hating on us. Someone does not encourage us. At the end of the day, We are always our own worst enemy ... Why be your own worst enemy when we can be our own biggest fan and supporter? It's because it's a lot easier to disbelieve in yourself than believe. Society as programmed us to feel that we can only do certain things, if we are from a certain background/class.

The truth is, You can do anything you set your mind to doing as long as you don't stand in your own. set yourself a goal for the next 6months and watch yourself achieve it. I am a firm believer in everything happens for a reason. this is why i'm writing this today... go head, prove me wrong ;) i dare ya