Saturday, August 21, 2010

Unlimited package deals? It's like THIS.

I am doing this for YOU the CLIENT. I get absolutely NOTHING out of these deals because I lose out on money, time and often patience because some (again i say some) clients believe that because i offered a discount/unlimited that I should not be able to eat, shower and sleep. I do have kids and I do have a life and it's not all about helping people all day everyday. Now, I know it's called "Unlimited" but there's such thing as common sense also. I cannot be available around the clock, How much good help would I be to YOU if i did not sleep nor eat for three days and then tried to guide you in your life? awwwhhh makes sense now?  I love helping people. This is what I do because I love it, but sometimes it's hard getting emails whinning at me, because i have not be around all day "where have you been? i've been waiting on this and that and i want to know like 12 different emails from 1 person in 1 day is wayyy to much" not only, is it too much for ME. but it's definetely, too much for you. There should be no time in your life where you hang on to someone's word so much.... one or two emails a day i can understand but please. don't email me asking me if i believe you should take the train or fly??? (this is an ie) I cannot and will not do this because its very exhausting for me and it's not good for you.. you have to learn to make your own decicions at time

I need some rest. I am sorry some people, get aggrevated when i am not at the computer all the time but i cannot help that.. for a package deal of about 500$ that would have cost you over 1500 if not a deal you should be grateful and not try to burn the reader out.. it makes no sense.. where's the respect?

Sunday, August 1, 2010

You have to understand....

I often get clients who ask me questions and I can clearly feel it in their hearts and souls that they are hurting very deeply. They cannot understand why a lover is not returning the love. They cannot understand why someone did not call back. They don't see why people hurt them. The truth for me is that when often I'm delivering the reading I will give the client everything that spirit gives me. If they do not rush me, because often i get the "okay okay but i don't want to know why he doesn't do it i want to know will he do it" Isn't that selfish??? Shouldn't you want to KNOW why he does or doesn't do certain things? The final result is important but you have to know why things happen.

Often the reasons why they do nor don't do certain things is more important than the actual question itself because they can help you understand your relationship or your partner better. It can help you see if it's something you can handle /deal with in the long term or something you want to deal with no longer. I often tell clients, while doing  a live session I usually need a good 10-20minutes to tell them exactly what is going on... email readings are different they are less rushed.. But live session i need at least 10-20 It takes me a while to deliver accurate information that can help you on your journey. If you want to call me to rush me and tell me "hurry up, i want to know" please call someone else. I don't give false hope, nor quick easy replies.


It's one thing to want a quick answer to something like " Am I going to get a new job? Am i going to be called for the interview? Is he/she going to be with me long-term?   but to want to know why someone has a certain behavioral pattern it's not so easy........

So please be understanding when I tell you that i cannot do it in 5mins.. this is not something that i can rush through.. It's your future after all...