Some ME time PLEASE

There is only a certain amount of  Readings and Helping people someone like me can do A DAY. I LOVE MY CLIENTS. I LOVE OFFERING THEM GUIDANCE. But sometimes people have to understand that I NEED REST too. Without rest how can I be full of energy to help you and other people who need help? I do work around the clock, if someone needs me, I WILL wake up. But that does not mean that I DONT go to sleep. sometimes I do SLEEP and when I DO. I LOVE IT *L* SO please try to understand that I am only human.

I think that is the biggest misconception of Clairvoyant and Psychics is that because we do and know what we know that we can somehow function on other realms than regular people. no. We eat and Sleep and drink water like the rest of society. So next time someone is not online when you need them please, understand and don't send hate mail and aggressive letters because it won't help your case. I am not saying this is something that has happened to me, but it has happened to other people i know that clients expect them to be there twenty four seven  seven days a week. That's not possible.

Now Speaking of me, time. YOU all need me time.. So every day EVERYONE should take 1 hour for themselves. no MATTER how BUSY you are. You need some time to relax and take care of you. LIVE YOUR LIFE and LOVE YOUR LIFE

Abusers and Abused.. men or women its NONO

How many times have we heard a friend, sister, brother...etc. Telling us that they got into an argument with their significant other and things got rough, either he slapped the crap out of her or she swung at him with a lamp. Do you really feel this is right? NO! Its completely wrong. NO one should ever raise their hands on someone they love. Dating abuse. Relationship Abuse. Marital Abuse all these things need to be stopped. It's not okay to remain in an abuse relationship. Now there's all kinds of Abuses but TODAY I am touching on the Physical aspect of things.

There is something in common that all abusers have, whether they are men or women. After the fact they are always sorry, they will never do it again. They are not sure what got into them. If someone is REALLY sorry, after the first time it happens, they will be signing up for counseling, therapy and anger management classes. If someone is NOT really sorry, They will just be OKAY until the next time they flip out and you get an ass-whipping again.

I want YOU (abused) To read this clearly. YOU are NOT to REMAIN a victim in a situation like this You are TO LEAVE. Go to a shelter for women (and there are some for men also) Call 911 do WHAT you have to do but leave that house before you end up, DEAD. It begins with slow fits of rage but escalates very quickly. It's NOT your fault. (unless you hit first then you are the ABUSER) but if you are not hitting and you get hit you are a VICTIM and you need to get help

I want YOU (The Abuser) To read this clearly. YOU are NOT to lay hands on a woman nor a man. You are going through repressed anger from the past. Perhaps even a past life. many factors key in here. It does not make you a bad person, but you really need some help. Call a psychologist, psychiatrist, doctor. Someoen who can help you understand your feelings and emotions and learn to control them. If you want to CHANGE there is a way....

The most important thing here. If you have CHILDREN PLEASE PLEASE leave right away, bring the kids. We do not need a world of children who have grown up to watch abusive behavior to keep the cycle going. Let's work today for a better more peaceful tomorrow.

Is money evil? or is the need evil?

We are living in a time, Where LOVE is what we are ALL searching for but MONEY is what we really NEED. Society, Government has made money take over love. We are fighting in relationships because theres not enough money to go around. We are stressed because we are working two jobs in order to put food on the table. there's no time to sleep, Your husband or wife leaves for work when you get home for work. You no longer spending time together, as a family. Things are falling apart.

We need to realize that money is only going to be a problem, as long as we allow it to be a problem. The less we need it, the less we are looking for it the more it will come towards you. It's nothing new that we here people saying "aaah it's always the same ones that win the lottery or bingo. its the ones with the money that don't need it" That's because they do not focus on winning or getting money. they don't want it or need it.

Sure we all need money, because it does make the world go'round. But don't lose yourself voer a dollar. Don't risk your health, your relationship and your life over a dollar.  When you die, from stress you cannot take that dollar with you.

Focus on enjoying the simple things in life and You WILL be BLESSED with money. 

The Rain & The emotional Benefits

When we wake up, to seeing rain, We have a tendency to say awwww shyt, another boring rainy day. The rain is the earth cleansing itself, giving humidity to the ground in order to bring life to earth. What we need to do on rainy days is take some time to reflect on things. Cry, Write down your sorrows and problems. Then let the rain wash it away. When the sun shines again, forget about the negativity and the the attraction for the sun in your own life.

Forget about your can'ts and won'ts and focus on the I CAN and I WILL. The sun shinning again after a rainy day gives people energy an drive to go outside and do things again. So after you've flushed your heartaches with the rainy day. Your soul is ready for some positive.
So Let go of the rain and let the sunshine within you. so next time you wake up to a rainy day, don't curse. dont be dissapointed. Instead use this as your Emotional cleaning day......When the sun shines again everything will be fresh and right.......

You dont have to believe me, though...................... Try it

Suicidal clients

There are some clients who come to us, daily that really need a psychologist.  The moment a client tells us of suicidal thoughts. The need/want to die or harm themselves or others. We need to remove ourselves from their journey and guide them towards a psychologist, counselor or even have them call 911 and find immediate help. It's one thing to be depressed and fed up, for a day or two. It happens to all of us. But when someone is speaking about dying and just trying to end their life over something as a relationship, child, parent, school this is someone who truly needs some psychological help. sure, if we wanted too we could really help them for a day or so but as soon as those feelings re-appear then they need the whole treatment all over again. I cannot speak for every expert but i do not want someone's life in my hands. That is to much responsibility for me.

I am here to help people on their Journeys when they are ready to make positive changes in their own lives and want me as a compass. as a map. not as the driver. I'll help you fuel your car but i won't drive that motha for you....  Please,  Psychics. Clairvoyants, healers and mediums. Be careful on how you treat people who have suicidal tendencies. 


 If you or someone you know, is/having suicidal thoughts please call the number below.. if it's extreme emergency please dial 911

• Call 1-800-SUICIDE / 1-800-784-2433
• Call 1-800-273-TALK / 1-800-273-8255

Complete Heartbreak

I have not posted lately, My heart has been in so much pain over this Haiti donate for the kids  situation. I've been watching the news. reading the news. perhaps a little bit too much because it's overwhelming and it's such a tragedy. so many lives forsaken. so many homeless people. so many orphans. This breaks my heart because It reminds me of what my grandma use to tell us when we were kids and waisting food.  She would say "You better eat that, someone somewheres would jump to the moon to get a piece of that" and that's the truth. people readind this, you don't need that extra pair of shoes, new nintendo game, new purse. You CAN survive without these material things. The people in Haiti need food, water, medical supplies this is something that they cannot live without..... I read on cnn  that doctors are not having too, operate on people washing with vodka and using a hacksaw... because of lack of supplies... so before you complain about how bad your life is because someone burnt your food or brought your food home late, your wife forgot to cook, it could be worst............... there are hundreds of thousands of people who would trade places with you at this moment in time, without a single thought in the world............ please keep them in your Prayers

I Love  you Haiti and I am Praying for You and Your people.
Haiti mon cherie..... Je T'aime par sa que sais creole, frere et soeur

Introducing.... ME!

Born Clairvoyant with a zap of Empath. I am able to feel the emotions,actions and situations taking place around people and their loved ones. I am viewed by Society as a "Psychic" I rather be called Clairvoyant. Although to many it is the same thing, Personally I feel that it's more humane. Society and rip off artists have given the word "Psychic" a feel of superiority on people. I am not a Crystal ball and I am also not a wish basket.... What's a WishBasket? It means I am not going to lie to you and tell you what you want to hear. I am going to deliver the truth whether it hurts or not. If it hurts now, the sooner you can begin Healing. If someone leads you on with false hope. false promises you tie yourself to a person or a situation longer than needed. The harder the healing process will be so with me, It's the Truth. No fairytale readings and again, I'm not a wish Basket.

Every post i make, Every word I say, is something I mean from my heart. I am fully aware that life is not all rosie and wonderful and i never try to make it as such. Certain things in life are not fair, pretty or even decent. I don't try to find excuses. Reality is harsh at times. It is what It Is.

I'm fairly new at this whole blogging thing, but I learn rather quickly so it should be an Interesting Year.

Happy New Years to Everyone have a BLESSED  2010