Stop waiting for someone to MAKE YOU LOVE YOU.

It really breaks my heart when certain people come my way and i hear them tell me that because they got left they are not worthy of a good man/woman. not worthy of happiness because something had to be wrong with them if their partner walked out on them. Perhaps the relationship, was just not ment to be. Perhaps that person was just not good enough for YOU. Perhaps there was more con's than pros in your relationship. Why is it that as soon as something goes wrong you want to turn things into being your fault.


Just because someone walks out of your life, Relationship, family, friends it does not mean that you automaticly become less of a loving person. You are suppose to love yourself no matter what. When you realize that no one can bring you down BUT YOURSELF. You will notice that you attract people that want to love you, cherish you and respect you. When you believe in giving everyone the ability to give you your worth your going to be sold short. someone is going to take advantage of you. You really need to not let people get the best of you.


When you say I AM WORTHY OF RESPECT and LOVE you will get nothing less because you won't tolerate it

Focusing on the bad ruins it all

There are so many times where i catch myself speaking to people and at the end of my conversation with them. I'm just exhausted I feel like the world just landed on my shoulders. No matter how much you try to make a light joke, no matter how much you try to show them a bit of positive they are stuck on the negative. That really drags someone down. I wrote on my status today that if people stopped being so serious and took things light heartedly a bit more life would be so much better. The world would be a better place.

Look at children as prime examples. They don't know the worries of the world. They don't know what being bitter, angry, sour and just plain ignorant is. So they don't show any long-term emotion other than happiness. Sure they get mad and cry and scream when they want something (but that's them learning) after two minutes of that they are back to laughing and playing.  How many times can we say that something makes us angry, sad or just turns our world upside down and ten minutes later we are perfectly fine? not often. Most of us dwell on those things for whole days if not weeks.

If you learn to let things go, sure reflect on them, get mad, cry, scream and then get over it. You will see that your whole day does not have to be affected. Your whole life does not have to be shattered by something that happened that was out of your control to begin with. so many of us are spending too many hours in a day complaining, bitching and whining about things that we cannot change. So let's try to slow that down and eventually stop that. If you cannot control it, leave it alone. If it's out of your power don't try to over power it. You will only end up miserable with messed up days.

Enjoying your life, begins with you and how you handle things thrown your way.

Love Life

Love YOU be easy on YOURSELF

Let's be honest, no matter how beautiful you are. No matter how wonderful your life is. Your job is. Your kid(s) is/are. You will have one of those days where you wake up, feel like the world is sitting on you. That's one of those days that you are being tested. Stumble towards the sink, grab yourself a big tall glass of cold fresh water. Walk yourself into the bathroom or where your nearest mirror is. Smile. Smile at yourself, because you are BEAUTIFULL. No one, Nothing. Not words. No someone else's actions towards you. Should make you feel any less of a person.

You can sit there and ask yourself, all day "WHY ME?" But at the end of the day feeling sorry for yourself, has not be productive you haven't done anything to make your life better. To even get you out of the situation that your why-me'ing about. You haven't been progressive at all.  Instead ask yourself, WHY NOT ME, when looking at horrific moments in the world. You will soon realize that you are Blessed, more than you know.

It's easy to lose faith and confidence in yourself when it seems like the more you do, the harder you try. The more changes you make NO ONE NOTICES. YET if you forget one little thing everyone wants to point it out.

I've had clients tell me, no matter what i do, it goes unnoticed but if i mess up, a little bit. everyone notices. You know what? That's okay.... There''s nothing in life that will get you moving like a pack of hating critics.
To be honest at the end of the day, it does not matter WHO thinks WHAT of you. as long as you are respectful and loving to yourself and your children. The world will keep going if you don't do the dishes for once. If you take a nap, if you go get your hair done instead of cooking supper for someone. Eat out. Breathe easy. Do something FOR YOU. You will notice that the world will feel less heavy...
but don't believe me................ TRY IT

A new begining for us

So now that i've spent some time discussing what i WILL not deal with. I can now begin on the positive things. I can focus on those who want to be helped. focus on bringing the positive and the love back into yourself. I know it was a negative blog to begin with. (It was brought to my attention) BUT. I  had to set things straight before.

To save me some time, but most of all to save you some time. if you wanted to hear lovely fairtytales. You were wasting your time with me. :) I am going to try to post more often in order to touch on more subjects.  I hope everyone is having a wonderful day and i hope everyone is looking forward to some positive things coming from me. :)  It's going to be still real and to the point. I just won't be focusing on the clients who DONT want to help themselves. I will be writing for those of you who can use the help and the energy coming from me... I look forward to hearing from you :)

*Love Life*