Why, I'm a good Clairvoyant/Psychic for YOU

 There's always a time in our lives where we wonder What's next? Is he or She the one? Is this person or that person honest? Am I going to get that promotion? Is my finances going to get better? How about my health?  Wellll It's easy these days to log on to the internet and find a whole selection of Psychics online. The problem with this is that NOT all Psychics are LEGIT.  Not all LEGIT psychics are HONEST. 


You do not want a Reader who is going to tell you lies, Feed you what you want to hear. Your needing a reader who is going to tell you the truth. You want someone who is going to help you see the bigger picture and Your going to find comfort and strenght with your reader. Someone who is worth your money, your time and your trust will never have you leaving a reading feeling angry, bitter, sad or afraid.

I am someone who is going to ALWAYS tell you the truth even when you do not want to hear it. I am going to tell you how to fix the situation, how to make things better, brighten your path... I am going to give you ways and guidance in fixing your path to be able to live your life as happy and fulfilled as can be.  Your going to need to be patient... nothing happens over night and no one who can truly help you can tell you that they can lite a candle or kiss the moon through astral travel and all your problems are going to be solved. those are false promises.

Every good reader WILL TELL YOU that in order to see change you must put in some work yourself.. emotionally, physically and spiritually.  I am always going to be honest and provide you with accurate readings, results.  I am known for giving accurate timeframes.

People who DONT want the help

I have encountered all kinds of people from different ethnic backgrounds, ages, sexual orientations in this line of work. But it's in my own personal life that i became baffled a short time ago. When  I encounter a client, we discuss the situation. We discuss the options. We find a solution and we begin working on a better tomorrow. Not this time. This is a (friend of mine and i use the term losely) I've known this person for quite some time. This person has had a very rough life.  Family abandonments. Drugs. You name it this person has been through it.  This person has a good heart, COULD be intelligent but chooses to be reduced to ignorance.  Does not want to learn about NOTHING. If a show on television is turned on where you can learn something, she will change the channel She says "this is why i didnt like school i don't like to learn, i can't stand that  crap" Person is always talking about she's judged and no one likes her nor trusts her.

I gave this girl a chance, I took her into my life. Helped her get on her feet. cleaned her up, off the drugs quite a bit.  Then we started talking about things that happened and why she has been so angry at the world lashing out and just saying things to hurt people around her. She said.  I need help, I know i need psychological help. FINE! So, I bring it up.. I said "If you really want the psychological help, I'll arrange for you to be able to see a Psychologist. I will even pay for it, if you need me too"  She takes a long pause.... She looks up, at me and she says.....

"I know I need the help, but I don't fucking want it... fuck it.. fuck it... fuck it...."

You can Imagine the look on my face? I was feeling a lot of emotions but confusion was the one taking over, I asked her.  Why wouldn't you want the help, when you know You need it? She tells me, she does not mind the pity that she gets and that she's born to be a fuck up, so the hell with it?
I closed the chapter right there, some people might be like omg! you really should have kept helping this person. she just really needs help, shes afraid, she's this and she's that. NO.

What this person is, is SELFISH.   We all know some people like that.  They will take, abuse and use you as much as they can with the show of "im changing and i want help" but as soon as help is on the way they turn things around and just love being miserable and using their past as a crutch. Nothing will ever change. 
Sometimes, no matter how much we love the person (family member, lover, friend) We have to cut them out of our lives before they bring us, down with them

Complaining.... It's not cute... no really

There comes a time in life where you really have to STOP COMPLAINING.  Trying to rush the hands of time is not going to do you no good. Every day wondering when your going to find mr. mrs right. Everyday complaining because your neighbor has a nicer car. Everytime you turn around calling someone down because they have something you want, is that really what you see as positive? The universe will only, return negativity back into your life, if that is all you are sending out. You cannot hate on the world and expect the world to love you in return. You've all heard the saying "Treat people the way you want to be treated" Why would you treat the world/The Universe any differently? Why would you wake up, every morning complaining about something that you do not have, Instead of being grateful for what you DO have?...

So many people in this world don't have food, water, clothes. The simple neccessities in life, Yet they are never complaining and always grateful for the little bit that they have.  I really believe wholeheartedly, that if people in the world today became a bit more aware that the negativity they spit out is what is keeping them trapped in the sadness, bitterness and anger that they are in, things would change.

Some people complain about having been single for so long. They can never find  a lover  that will remain with them, they feel like they are always being used, someone is always walking out on them... Stop. Ask yourself something "WHY, is everyone walking out" It cannot be EVERYONE who has the same problem. The only, common thing/person here is YOU.  Take a deep look at yourself and what your saying, doing and the energy you are putting out there with these people, chances are. There is something about you negative that is pushing people away.

Now, I am not saying that you are negative to the core. no one is. We all have negative traits and positive ones. The key here is like everything else. BALANCE. You cannot be over the top with negativity because it drains people, no one wants a nagger and a complainer around them all the time. It's sucks the happiness right out of people.

So next time before you complain about what you don't got, think about what you do GOT. Think about what your doing in your own life that is causing these things around you to happen and I guarantee things will change for the positive within your life.

It's like Cats & Dogs

 You ever have a Friendship or Relationship in which you argue and disagree even fight with the other person like cats and dogs do, then simply return to the normal routine shortly, after ( I am not speaking of physical violence here) I mean arguments, fussing, fighting, yelling, disagreeing, bickering. Whether its a friendship or a Relationship these are the most amazing relationships, because they are often there to present us with what has to be changed in our own personal lives. We often fight too much with these people, because they mirror parts of ourselves that we cannot stand, cannot agree with or simply, cannot work on at the present time.

Often we are arguing with a part of ourselves. Because when things calm down again you can catch yourself saying something like, we're two peas in a pot, or were soul sisters or soul mates. Either way, We are always bickering at each other and these little arguments often come quickly, like a fire who has been thrown gasoline on. a quick BURST of HEAT and INTENSE reaction. Then quickly, goes out as if it was never there to begin with. The problem with this is that is causes a stress on your body emotionally drains you over and over again. Without you noticing it. So sometimes after so many arguments with someone so close to you who you cannot seem to let go of, separate from.

It's a good Idea to evaluate yourself, See what about this person is bothering you, find out if there's something about the Issue that brews something inside you, It can sometimes be from a past life. We all need to investigate ourselves more. Because it's always easy to point the finger at the other person and deliver blame in any direction than our own. Very often however we are our own ennemie time and time again

Loving someone who hates themselves.....

We always talk about " You cannot love someone until you LOVE YOURSELF" What happens, when your on the receiving end of this situation? It's not an easy situation to love someone so much that you would do anything for them. Love them, support them, be there for them. Even when THEY do not believe in themselves. Your their wings when they cannot fly, Your their voice of reason when they give up on themselves. But, How long can you DO THIS before you start to feel like your doing EVERYTHING in the relationship? How long before you begin feeling like your putting everything in, while the other person is taking everything and not giving nothing back. Love/Relationships should come with a balance of energy exchange if your giving everything without receiving your going to go dry emotionally, feeling like you ran a marathon without a drink of water nor sneakers. If you always get and never give. Your going to end up, seeing your partner sad and dissatisfied.


It's becoming a problem with women these days, they are so eager to please their man. They will stop at nothing to make him happy, while he's taking it all in, at the end of the day does this really help him? Does it only create a bigger space for him to turn into his own self hating mode? I mean this is not only women who do this for men, some men do for their women also with extreme but for the most part it's woman who do for men, By nature we are caretakers, we want to save and heal the world.

There are some people in relationships that just want someone for the pity. If you leave me, I'll kill myself. If you leave me, I don't know what i'll do. If IF IF and it scares the other person into staying. I've realized if someone needs you THAT MUCH to survive they are not living to begin with and they need some serious guidance and help. Do not DO NOT send yourself into EMOTIONAL PRISON for someone who is living a life trapped in unhappiness and sorrow. You can only, help them so much

Its sad but at the end of the day we all have to let go of something, to follow our true calling <3

I'll change... This time I'll change ???

 Alright.... So we've all had someone in our own life ( relationship) or had a friend who dealt with this in a relationship. They are in a repetitive  abusive relationship. (Emotional abuse, Verbal abuse, Mental Abuse) all these are as bad as Physical Abuse. These are all situations in which the person who is dominant in the relationship, Always uses their power over the person who NEEDS. When you believe you NEED someone, You want them so much that you believe ANYTHING they are telling you. It's always the same words. " I'll change, I'm sorry I really mean it..... I'll change" Then we fall and bend the rules, AGAIN. We drop our anger and we drop our decisions of walking away. We then are allowing the abuse to continue.  These abusers don't care about changing, they will not change unless we remove ourselves from the situation and allow them to see what they are doing.

Giving them the chance, to keep abusing is NOT LOVING THEM. It's only allowing them to keep hurting you, themselves and their life. If you are a Victim of Abuse. You HAVE TO WALK AWAY. Allow the person you LOVE to get the help that they deserve. If this is really love, If this man/woman really loves you, loves the relationship, loves their family. They are going to want the help, seek the help, get the help and walk a path of righteousness. They will find a way to make themselves better.

I know, a lot of people say that " once an abuser, always an abuser" that is NOT true. Alot of people who abuse their loved ones. have MANY emotional ISSUES that they have to deal with and have repressed angers. With therapy and counseling often this helps ... THEY CANNOT CHANGE without the help.

If you really love the person in your life who is abusing you, If your friend really loves their abusive partners. Tell them to walk away, walk out and allow them to get the help they seek.... If it's really ment to be it will happen all over again, once they are emotionally, mentally and psychologically healed

Do not hang around in the Abusive relationship waiting of the change to happen because it won't as long as u fall for the " I'll change speech" You are giving them another ticket to hurt, abuse you and hurt themselves more and more over and over again...............

If you are being physically abused........ call 911 and do not hesitate to walk away.............

*Love DOES NOT HURT*
 This is a song about Spousal Abuse *Love is Blind*
 

addicted to self induced pain?

Yesss! I'm coming back with a BANG. okay not a bang *L* but at least a hollerrrr..  I have experienced a few things these last few weeks. I have been dealing with certain people who i have really tried hard to help. Actually, lost money helping, lost time helping, lost alot of energy and at the end of these three weeks I'm looking around and I cannot see anything productive that has come out of it. It's almost like i spent my whole time speaking to myself.  I have been made fun of and called "Intelligent" with a smurk face more than once. Telling me, "Oh so your so intelligent.... why do you even care"  but... It's trying to get someone to understand that LIFE IS NOT ALWAYS FAIR but ITS ALWAYS going to have a PURPOSE regardless.

There's a time when you just have to let go trying to help someone who does not want to help themselves you cannot send yourself in a hole, even into depression for making someone else's life better. There is always going to be that someone who says "I'm never drinking again, because they feel sick then soon as they are better they got the bottle in their hand" There's always going to be the person who runs back into the abuser's arms after the fight is over. There will always be the people who are attracted to sadness, hardship. Now, from what i am feeing here always is that there are victims then there are those who LOVE TO BE playing the victim role., They can be the center of attention. get all the attention and then they go right back to the situation and all over again.

There is no way that we can help these people UNTIL they are completely, aware that they are addicted to self inflicted pain. Once they begin to understand what is really going on, they can begin accepting the help that you have to offer. until then it's going to be a battle with someone who does not listen

Reading online & offline

 I've been asked by  many people recently, who have just found me online or even offline at the mall or at the store. "hey, don't you do readings? How does it work? Can you do it online? is there a difference, online/offline? So here are some answers.

I have been doing readings online since 2002. I have been doing readings offline (at my home since 2004) There's no big different for me (I cannot speak for any other psychic/clairvoyant/tarot reader or medium) But for me online or offline the connection is the same as far as the delivery of the reading and the information given by my guides that I offer my clients. The only difference between online and offline readings is the compassion and the healing that can be given to clients by being face to face with me.

A smiling face is often something that everyone needs to see. Feeling like you have a friend in someone is important and ALOT of my clients who come to me face to face tell me, they enjoy spending some time with someone talking, laughing and hearing their truths with someone face to face because it's like meeting an old friend who knows them better than they know themselves. I'm not sure if that's a good thing lol :) But I enjoy helping as much as possible.

I do my readings through Email (Email readings are very detailed and clients have been satisfied for years)
I also do readings through Yahoo messenger and Msn messenger. (live readings)

Payments are always accepted in the same way (Paypal)

My offline readings can be arranged by appointment by telephone ( You have to ask for my phone number i don't post it online)

I enjoy doing this and i do it FOR THE CLIENTS.  I am often misunderstood by those who do not understand or fear my work but for those who's lives I have touched and walk into daily.... They have good words for me... Those are the words that matter to me

You can always contact me for more information at
rosalyndavisions@yahoo.ca

The victim, Seriously. All the time?

It can happen, once or twice heck maybe three times.. BUT

There are situations in this life that we all fall into, We sometimes bump into a road we didn't want it, suffer at the hands and expense of someone else. We are sometimes, abused, neglected and we will sometimes feel alone and lonely.  But is it possible that we "also sometimes" create this for ourselves?
There are patterns with certain people, where they are always the victim. They start a rumor, at the end of the week they end up, caught and hurt (it's someone elses fault) 

They cheat on a test and end up, flunking in a class (it's someone elses fault)
They lie and cheat on their partner's get dumped. are left lonely and alone (oh it HAS TO BE something the other person did)

They are miserable and it's always because of him and her and them and anyone but themselves.

Only, once we accept that we are completely responsible for our actions and things that happen in our lives will we be able to be completely happy. It's start to stop complaining about what we don't want and act towards attracting what we do want.

no one wants a cry baby around. If your over the age of 25 and your still running to family and friends to get you through EVERYTHING because its EVERYONE's FAULT but your OWN you need a reality check. life is NOT easy. not for YOU not for ME but we have to work hard to get the happiness that we want.
accept responsibility, admit to not being perfect and watch how your life begins to change :)

Goodness.. can you be quiet?

Ever have someone in your life who you tried to help as much as possible. Whether it be a friend, lover or family member. You did everything in your power to help them get their life on track, get their heart and head on straight and then you finally realize all that hardwork and patience was a big whole waste of energy on your part because 90% of the things they told you they didn't do or did was just a bunch of made up, lies and some kind of fantasy in their own head and life? There comes a time when people like that have to be completely, cut out of your life. Why? Because as long as you keep people like this in your life, you will never progress because you are going to be drained.

Emotionally, and psychologically drained. We sometimes call these people Emotional Vampires because they suck the life, energy and happiness out of you so quickly, it's almost like spraying on cement on your body. There's so many people who don't realize that they are this way. I always call them the Lying/truths. They believe everything they tell, even if it's a lie. I mean if they tell you that they are Jesus! they are Jesus! Don't tell them no different. You ask them for the truth and honesty and they feed you "their truth" which equals a bold lie. That is not people you want to keep in your life. Clear these people out of your lives. It's not like it's a hard task to do, because you will be able to tell who these people are just from being around them you feel heavy, agitated and just confused at times. Because you cannot understand WHAT or WHY things are coming out of their mouths the way they are.

Sometimes you just gotta tell people to Just ~be QUIET~  

Love YOUR LFIE..... CLEAN UP the PEOPLE WHO SURROUND YOU :)

Stop waiting for someone to MAKE YOU LOVE YOU.

It really breaks my heart when certain people come my way and i hear them tell me that because they got left they are not worthy of a good man/woman. not worthy of happiness because something had to be wrong with them if their partner walked out on them. Perhaps the relationship, was just not ment to be. Perhaps that person was just not good enough for YOU. Perhaps there was more con's than pros in your relationship. Why is it that as soon as something goes wrong you want to turn things into being your fault.


Just because someone walks out of your life, Relationship, family, friends it does not mean that you automaticly become less of a loving person. You are suppose to love yourself no matter what. When you realize that no one can bring you down BUT YOURSELF. You will notice that you attract people that want to love you, cherish you and respect you. When you believe in giving everyone the ability to give you your worth your going to be sold short. someone is going to take advantage of you. You really need to not let people get the best of you.


When you say I AM WORTHY OF RESPECT and LOVE you will get nothing less because you won't tolerate it

YOU make me PULL MY HAIR.. ARRGGH

Royalty? When? We all have a specific person, a friend a lover or a family member who swears they are royalty. Like everything you do for them is never good enough, if you do something it has to be right on time, not one minute late. Everything has to be perfect for them. You have to show them the most respect and speak to them in a specific tone cause if you don't they might just think your being "smart" Now, When it comes to these people, doing something for you or anyone else for that matter.....

They are always late, You have to repeat yourself more than three times. They get an attitude when you do, like rushing them is no fun, yet they rush you like your on the clock. They always find a way to critize what you do, or don't do. They will find a flaw in the best of your efforts. These people are very annoying to be around, Yet we LOVE THEM, why?

Because these people, deep down are the most loving and caring people in the world, being a grandmother, a lover or a friend.. These people have really NO IDEA that they are being this way, You can even tell them, Your being a real idiot right now and they look right at you like HUH?!?!

It takes, time and patience ESPECIALLY if this is someone you are in a Relationship, with. You have to really, let it be known often that they are being this way if you keep it in, bottled in its not going to help you any more than if you just argued with them all the time. The best approche? cool,calm and collective. Decent, grown conversation. Without yelling, pointing fingers and major accusations

The royalty with them is often something they have no idea about so sometimes we have to let them know. YOUR NOT always RIGHT and it's OKAY for OTHER PEOPLE to have OPINIONS also.    It's a rough ride but often worth it because these people are very loyal to their friends and loved ones.

Loving YOURSELF

There are so many reasons to love yourself. The main one is that when you love yourself and respect yourself you don't have to worry about someone taking advantage of you,  because you will not stand for it nor tolerate it. I am serious, so many women tell me oh I love myself, I'm the shit.. uhhh? So why are you staying with a man who is abusing you? cheating on you? lying to you? They answer the same.. "Because I love him or Because I won't find no one else" Is that SELF LOVE? I seriously, doubt that very much.

Priorities need to get in order. If you LOVE yourself you don't allow someone to treat you wrong because you love them. Then there are those people who say they love themselves as they are, yet they say they want to lose weight but won't even TRY to do something for themselves, If you KNOW you want to lose weight, why buy that extra bag of chips or that extra burger? If you know your going to feel bad, sad and sick? People these days think, aaaah i love myself the way that i am, big or not well it's not really about THAT. If you REALLY loved yourself you would want to keep your body healthy from the inside out. Who cares if they make a dress that you can fit, does it mean that your heart and organs are healthy on the inside??? NO! So get yourself together and REALLY LOVE YOURSELF.  MOVE.MOVE. and eat healthy.. DO HAPPY. HEALTHY THINGS for yourself. LOOK IN THE MIRROR and SMILE then tell yourself your going to WALK. JOG. Do 1 sit up. DO SOMETHING for YOURSELF.

I myself, have been over-weight and I thought I loved myself, until i realized i was disrespecting my own BODY by not being good to it.. loading it up, with unhealthy things. I want to LIVE LONGER  you NEED to do the SAME

Love YOURSELF :)

Love does still exist

 There's so many ways to look at love, So many people over the years have used the words " I Love You" only to make them wrong. While lying and hurting people, using the only words we had to really show and let someone know we loved them truly. There is still real love out there. Loving someone where you listen to a song and it brings a moment in your heart that awakens and it brings butterflies in your stomach. There is still that love that when you see your partner of "X" number of years you still feel nervous, you still blush, you still look your best and get pretty/handsome for him/her. There is still the love where you put someone's needs before your own. wanting them to be happy, because just knowing that they are happy, makes you happy inside.

That's love that's not selfish. there are so many people these days that put restrictions on love and bad things on love. Oh IF he loved you he would do this and do that, if she loved you she would do this and that... WHO are YOU to say what is right and what is wrong? Just because someone does not agree with the way you are loving or being loved, does not make it wrong. Don't ever allow someone to tell you that your way of loving or being loved is not the "right way" now unless of course there is abuse involved because love is not abuse. not emotionally, spiritually, physically nor sexually no one suffers in love.

But I want people to know that real love does still exist sometimes it's not easy because when your in a relationship where real love is living. Things happen to test us. We bump into roads that have turns and bumps and dead ends, where we have to turn around and do it all over again with the same person just to let each-other know things are going to be alright. Whenever and Wherever there's real love. There's no need to fear because at the end of the day you can get through anything together.

Everyone argues, Everyone has disagreements. It's not because of an argument that you can let someone tell you that things are not real ... keep that in your head and in your heart..

It's your life... LOVE IT & LIVE IT

It's the Simple things in life that bring happiness

It's the simple things in life, that bring real happiness. Diamonds, gold and material things are not going to get you very far in life, if you are not loved nor loving yourself. Those who love you because you already have all those materialistic things, won't stand by you when you would lose it all. Trust me, When it comes to love, the simple things mean and matter the most. When someone breaks up, with you. what is the first that that usually crosses your mind? I sure miss the damn toilet seat he left up, even when i complained about it. not " i miss the rings he use to buy me" That is never the first thing on someone's mind. Let's face it. We are all attracted to material things because it's installed into us from an early age. Those with money get more. If you knew how many people who are well off financially who are unhappy, in their personal life because all that money and nothing and no one worthy of sharing it with. Sometimes it's just not worth it.

Don't focus on being rich in life, focus on being happy and loved and loving. That is going to bring you more than money can ever do you for you. now, don't get me wrong. Money is great and we all love it, want it and need it. But at the end of the day. Money alone is NOT enough to keep you happy, completely happy. You have to aime higher than a nice pay check. Just try that. Focus on happy little things and you will notice that your riches improve on their own. Your money flow will increase just because you are not being greedy. Just because you settle for less but could use more. The universe will work with you. That's a Promise.

Its YOUR LIFE. Live it and LOVE IT

Progress, Does it mean leaving others behind?

There are times when it really feels like the world as given up, on you. Things are all falling apart, nothing seems to be working. People don't listen, everyone is judging you and misjudging you. It feels like your completely alone and like someone is holding you a prisoner in your own heart, life and soul. These are times where you have to look at yourself, from within. Did you do something to limit your own path? Are you keeping yourself in a situation that's not good for you? Are you trying to help someone who does not want to help themselves in life?  Waiting on your partner to progress while he's just sitting around not wanting to progress mentally and spiritually?

These are things that can have you feeling heavy and just stuck. A feeling of unknown and aggravation. It doesn't have to stay that way. You have the ability to move forward from any situation. Does that mean that you have to let go of your partner? of your friends? No it doesn't It means that you continue moving forward on your path, Doing what feels good to you. They will realize it's the right way to go, and follow (catch up) or they won't but that will be their decision. YOU will be fine... The only way for YOU to be fine is progress. 

It happens, so more often in Friendships than relationships because for the most part relationships are based on equal thought and emotions. (not often but we touch on that on another time) But Friendships are what causes confusion a lot of times.  Your friends with someone and it's the same routine, drinking, partying, going out, getting so drunk you can't remember things, doing too much of nothing and not enough of something. so all of a sudden your like okay. This is NOT productive. I need to change my life style.  What is going to happen is.

Your going to find a path of progression doing better for yourself, achieving things. Your friend is either going to say. wow. I can have all that too if i stop the lack of responsibility in your life and move forward or your friend is going to call you a trader and keep going with the drinking only to realize few years down the road that they missed out on a whole lot

At the end of the day you have to do what feels RIGHT to YOU. LIVE and LOVE YOURS LIFE.
You cannot make someone learn responsibility before their time. Some people will go through a whole lifetime of wasting years and end up 60 unhappy and nothing to fall back on. That is NOT your responsibility

If they follow, they follow. If they don't.... Do not stop yourself :)

Is money evil? or is the need evil?

We are living in a time, Where LOVE is what we are ALL searching for but MONEY is what we really NEED. Society, Government has made money take over love. We are fighting in relationships because theres not enough money to go around. We are stressed because we are working two jobs in order to put food on the table. there's no time to sleep, Your husband or wife leaves for work when you get home for work. You no longer spending time together, as a family. Things are falling apart.

We need to realize that money is only going to be a problem, as long as we allow it to be a problem. The less we need it, the less we are looking for it the more it will come towards you. It's nothing new that we here people saying "aaah it's always the same ones that win the lottery or bingo. its the ones with the money that don't need it" That's because they do not focus on winning or getting money. they don't want it or need it.

Sure we all need money, because it does make the world go'round. But don't lose yourself voer a dollar. Don't risk your health, your relationship and your life over a dollar.  When you die, from stress you cannot take that dollar with you.

Focus on enjoying the simple things in life and You WILL be BLESSED with money. 

Useless argument or Lesson in the making?

There's times in life where things happen that are completely out of our control. It's easy when we have a falling out with our best-friend or our significant other, parents. To blame them right off the bat. It's THEIR fault. I didn't do anything. okay, that's when you take a deep breath and you say. okay, I didn't do anything TODAY. Maybe the argument stems from something that has been done by you in the past. As friends and Lovers we often let things slide, but after enough is enough we tend to want to just OKAY. Your going to have to learn this the hard way and give someone a taste of their behavior.
It happens to the best of us, We always find it so much easier to blame someone else, than to actually consider that we're part of the problem, not the solution. What we have to learn is to become part of the solution. Work towards not pointing the finger so fast. Besides, we all learn from every situation in our lives. These are lessons to help us progress on our paths. If we don't learn, we don't progress.  Which means more than likely we're going to go through the same thing. over and over again until we learn the lesson which we are suppose to. So next time someone is angry with you, not speaking to you or just has words for you. Try not blaming them right away, try seeing what really happened to lead to this point.

I am not saying to be the subject of abuse because it's something you must of did. I'm talking about random little fights. not physical or psychologically abusive arguments/fights. I'm talking about those arguments you keep having over and over with the people in your life



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A new begining for us

So now that i've spent some time discussing what i WILL not deal with. I can now begin on the positive things. I can focus on those who want to be helped. focus on bringing the positive and the love back into yourself. I know it was a negative blog to begin with. (It was brought to my attention) BUT. I  had to set things straight before.

To save me some time, but most of all to save you some time. if you wanted to hear lovely fairtytales. You were wasting your time with me. :) I am going to try to post more often in order to touch on more subjects.  I hope everyone is having a wonderful day and i hope everyone is looking forward to some positive things coming from me. :)  It's going to be still real and to the point. I just won't be focusing on the clients who DONT want to help themselves. I will be writing for those of you who can use the help and the energy coming from me... I look forward to hearing from you :)

*Love Life*

Not your average

I am begining to become very aggrevated and fustrated with the belief that all "Spiritual Workers" Psychics,Clairvoyants, Healers must be on holier than thou behavior, twentyfourseven. I cannot and will not speak for every other worker on the planet. However, here's my piece. I am a normal woman. I go through regular life situations. Relationships. Issues. Friendsships, Broken friendships. I am not going to be writing in my blog about being better than anyone else. I am not going to write 100 ways to make the man you love, love you back if indeed he does not love you.

You won't hear any spell stories. ways to make someone love you against their free wil. Your going to be reading regular posts, with a twist of Clairvoyance and Psychic perception on things. I do not believe that there is anything wrong, with readers, psychics and healers who offer blogs of hours and hours of typing about what are soulmates about, how to tell if someone's cheating.. etc.... The truth is, We are Given this ability to help each client on case, by case basis. We cannot go ahead and throw all the peas in one pot. Not one relationship, nor prediction can be based on a situation that happened in your own personal belief. course, we can use our personal experience to be compassionate and relate to clients but our "personal disbeliefs of certain things" cannot be used in our readings.

Our opinions on "gay relationships, marriage or sexual relationships"
Our opinions on "Interracial Dating, Marriage, Relationship or sexual relationships"
Our opinions on "Affairs, Cheaters, Cheating, Threesometes, Swingers"

Those three specifc areas should never be a reason to judge a client.....
Again, I'm just human. I never claimed to be perfect but there are certain things that clients need to be aware of while choosing a psychic reader. If someone makes you feel like your a horrible person because of certain things that you do, based on their beliefs. Even argue with you about it. They are being unethical and you need to find another Worker to help and guide you.