Why, I'm a good Clairvoyant/Psychic for YOU

 There's always a time in our lives where we wonder What's next? Is he or She the one? Is this person or that person honest? Am I going to get that promotion? Is my finances going to get better? How about my health?  Wellll It's easy these days to log on to the internet and find a whole selection of Psychics online. The problem with this is that NOT all Psychics are LEGIT.  Not all LEGIT psychics are HONEST. 


You do not want a Reader who is going to tell you lies, Feed you what you want to hear. Your needing a reader who is going to tell you the truth. You want someone who is going to help you see the bigger picture and Your going to find comfort and strenght with your reader. Someone who is worth your money, your time and your trust will never have you leaving a reading feeling angry, bitter, sad or afraid.

I am someone who is going to ALWAYS tell you the truth even when you do not want to hear it. I am going to tell you how to fix the situation, how to make things better, brighten your path... I am going to give you ways and guidance in fixing your path to be able to live your life as happy and fulfilled as can be.  Your going to need to be patient... nothing happens over night and no one who can truly help you can tell you that they can lite a candle or kiss the moon through astral travel and all your problems are going to be solved. those are false promises.

Every good reader WILL TELL YOU that in order to see change you must put in some work yourself.. emotionally, physically and spiritually.  I am always going to be honest and provide you with accurate readings, results.  I am known for giving accurate timeframes.

Two Faced People?? WHY?

We all know someone (co-worker,parents,friend,family member,lover) who is labeled as "two faced" in Societies views someone who is two faced is someone who speaks behind someone's back while not in their presence but when in their presence makes it seem as if they are the world to them. It's someone who goes behind their friends' back and says mean things or random things about them. Turns around and flips the story to make it seem like it was not really said, THAT WAY.

My opinion is that most people, who are two faced are lacking self esteem. They cannot share a friend. They do not want their TWO friends to have a Friendship. So if they can turn these two against eachother, they do not have to fear being left out if their friendship, kicks off. People who are labeled as two facer's are usually good people, but people who have suffered some form of emotional trauma causing them to really fear losing someone/something.
The fear of being replaced, sometimes it/can be extremely overwhelming for someone who has lost all their lives.

Then there's those who barely, have any friends at all and then they are somewhere and hear someone talking about you... in order to try to make conversation and fit in, will often say something innacurate about you. simply to be involved in the conversation and feel that he/she is part of something.
Am i making excuses for these people? NO! Because I've been victim of it many times and it's a horrible place to be. I am not making excuses but it is the truth. Not everyone does things to hurt others on purpose or make trouble for fun. Some people really have NO IDEA what they are doing, while doing it. it comes naturally because of Internal Emotional Scars.

so before you end up cutting off a friendship because of these things. Have a talk with your friend. Find out WHAT IS REALLY GOING ON. Chances are there's something deeper than you can see or imagine... not all people are out there trying to hurt you for the sake of hurting

People who DONT want the help

I have encountered all kinds of people from different ethnic backgrounds, ages, sexual orientations in this line of work. But it's in my own personal life that i became baffled a short time ago. When  I encounter a client, we discuss the situation. We discuss the options. We find a solution and we begin working on a better tomorrow. Not this time. This is a (friend of mine and i use the term losely) I've known this person for quite some time. This person has had a very rough life.  Family abandonments. Drugs. You name it this person has been through it.  This person has a good heart, COULD be intelligent but chooses to be reduced to ignorance.  Does not want to learn about NOTHING. If a show on television is turned on where you can learn something, she will change the channel She says "this is why i didnt like school i don't like to learn, i can't stand that  crap" Person is always talking about she's judged and no one likes her nor trusts her.

I gave this girl a chance, I took her into my life. Helped her get on her feet. cleaned her up, off the drugs quite a bit.  Then we started talking about things that happened and why she has been so angry at the world lashing out and just saying things to hurt people around her. She said.  I need help, I know i need psychological help. FINE! So, I bring it up.. I said "If you really want the psychological help, I'll arrange for you to be able to see a Psychologist. I will even pay for it, if you need me too"  She takes a long pause.... She looks up, at me and she says.....

"I know I need the help, but I don't fucking want it... fuck it.. fuck it... fuck it...."

You can Imagine the look on my face? I was feeling a lot of emotions but confusion was the one taking over, I asked her.  Why wouldn't you want the help, when you know You need it? She tells me, she does not mind the pity that she gets and that she's born to be a fuck up, so the hell with it?
I closed the chapter right there, some people might be like omg! you really should have kept helping this person. she just really needs help, shes afraid, she's this and she's that. NO.

What this person is, is SELFISH.   We all know some people like that.  They will take, abuse and use you as much as they can with the show of "im changing and i want help" but as soon as help is on the way they turn things around and just love being miserable and using their past as a crutch. Nothing will ever change. 
Sometimes, no matter how much we love the person (family member, lover, friend) We have to cut them out of our lives before they bring us, down with them

This is NOT a RANT it's the TRUTH

This is something that has been bothering me for the longest while dealing with clients. These are not "every" client. But those who are in denial and do not want to hear the truth. They Believe they do, but they really don't. I'm the best reader. I'm Amazing, I'm so nice etc... As soon as i tell them about themselves on a level they do not want to hear it's "Your tone changed, Your maybe not accurate"  NO! Have you stopped to think that maybe the truth hurts and you are not able to handle it, so blaming me is easier than admitting to YOUR faults? I mean seriously. We all do it. I EVEN DISLIKE hearing the truth sometimes, but guess what?????
It's the first step, to getting your life on the right track....  As a reader and an honest reader I believe I have to write something on my behalf in case I come across as a "bitch" at times.

I will NOT lie to you, tell you what you want to hear or make things seem lighter than they are simply because I know this would make you happy. You are going to hear only, the truth. You will hear the good and the bad...  I could lie and tell you all that you want to know and all that would make you happy, but in the end it would only hurt more when things did not turn out as you wanted them to. It would be wrong and unethical for me to SELL YOU LIES.

So at the end of the day, if you choose to leave me bad ratings, feedback or opinions because I am not lying. it's not going to change what I have to tell you. Your never going to get a lie from me, so if you want to pay for lies. Find someone who does not care about your future. because I DO.
With that being said.. Thank you to those clients of mine who want to learn, grow and get better. even when hearing the truth burns they are grateful because they Know i am HELPING them and doing it out of love.

The truth is often something that bothers us, makes us mad, sad and very angry at times because it makes sure we confront our flaws, fears and anxieties. It triggers certain things within us, that we fear the most.... in the end it's worth it though :)

This post was written rather quickly, I have two kids running around here :) I' will write a more in dept follow up

Is the grass really greener on the other side?

The grass my friend ALWAYS looks greener on the other side. Until you end up, there. Step in some doodoo and take a look look around and there's missing patches of grass. bugs all over the place and it's never watered or watered too much....  We as humans often take what we have for granted and we believe we can get better elsewhere. That's where cheating comes from for the most part.  One of the partners is NOT satisfied and steps out because it looks soo much better over "there" Then once the situation happens they take a look back and realize their own grass wasn't that far off green as they thought. but it's too late, They already walked into trouble grounds.

It is so simple to feel and believe that other people have it better because of course no one is ever going to say my relationship is not working and things are ugly for me. they are going to paint a nice picture for the public but deep down to the core there are some serious issues within the relationship. So while your looking in, thinking wow this is an amazing person. You have no idea that once you get with that other person things are going to be all hell.

I always tell my clients, If your planning on leaving one partner for another (ie: Your in a relationship and plan on leaving it just so you can be with someone new that you already started seeing/cheating with) be cautious because in reality things may not be what it seems. You can often end up in far worst situation than you were in previously. It always looks better but it does not mean it is.



this was a rather small post but it just popped into my head... 

Bullying? Really. STOP IT!

If you are reading this please repost on facebook... or any other place that you can

I am writing this, with my whole hearted into this post because this has happened to me, I have been a Victim. I have seen people close to me be Victims and I have had clients who have been Victims. I know people who ARE victims and THIS HAS TO STOP!!!!!

There's a lot of things bullies do not understand about life and their actions. You may think that it makes you look cool or "tough" and that people are going to want to be your friend because of your behavior towards others. Being rude, slapping, pushing, calling someone names, making fun of someone's clothes, ethnic background, lunch, shoes, speech, intelligence. all of these things ARE NOT GOING TO MAKE YOU LOOK GOOD and in 10 years FROM NOW. These people will be affected STILL and YOU will not have made it any further in life than if you would have been a good person.

It's not fun to wake up, for school knowing that the minute you get on the bus or get in the school that your life because a torment. That you feel like you cannot breathe. Your heart is breaking you want to cry, your heart is racing, tears in your eyes, lump in your throats. Your nervous walking in the halls because everyone looks at you. You never know WHO will jump out and say something funny towards you and everyone will laugh at you. You are afraid of being in a class room because your afraid to be surrounded by the people who poke jokes at you.

Teachers, do not realize that a lot of kids come in the class room late because they hide in the bathroom or in the library until dinner is over and everyone is in class so they can walk freely or even go into the bathroom without being harassed. Sometimes kids go to the bathroom during class always the same kids because once kids are in the class-room they can use the bathroom without fear of being bullied. Some kids don't even eat at dinner time, because they don't want to go to the cafeteria...

It''s not every child that can afford the name brand clothing, the 300$ shoes. Those fancy little note books worth 10$ that you can buy at the dollar store. It's not everyone that can have that amazing model body in high school, it's not every girl who has a petite waist and a clear face. It's not every guy who has amazing body in high school and has all the girls chasing him. It's not every guy who's on the basket ball team. It's not every girl that's a cheerleader. But that does not make these other kids less significant. 

It's so easy to clique and laugh at other people in school. It's so easy to point, tease and laugh but for us? For those who were on the other side of the teasing, what does it really do???

I was bullied From grade 6 up, until grade 10. I changed schools twice. In one school it was so bad I did grade 9 (three times) because I couldn't concentrate and I was so afraid to go into the school it made me sick. I turned to drugs because I didn't want to go to school sober. I didn't want to feel the pain of the words and the pain of the attacks emotionally, verbally, spiritually that ripped me up, inside. I had a hard time breathing. I changed schools and was given a chance and because of this I graduated and I did something with my life. got off drugs and did something wonderful for myself. BUT NOT EVERYONE IS THIS LUCKY!!!!!

I did do better, but I do suffer from Anxiety attacks that are caused by this. I still don't always feel comfortable going out in public because of it... YEARS LATER!! some of these people that bullied me, speak to me, tell me they are sorry because they didn't know what they were doing they were just being "mean/funny" They have no idea how much it hurts every time i see their face the pain is all over me again like it just happened.  The pain that you put on these kids wont ever go away..

The pain that you make, others feel just so you can feel better about yourself. it does not go away and in the long-run karma will come after you... Keep in mind that your going to have children someday. You might have a little sister or brother and you would not want them to suffer this. You would not want them to go to bed everynight crying because they fear the next day of school..

Parents. If your kids are afraid to go to school or don't want to go to school DO NOT BELIEVE it's because they just DONT LIKE SCHOOL. 90% of the time there's a deep reason why they do not want to go to school and PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE look into it, don't let your child life be affected by these bullies.... GET IT STOPPED!!!

Bullies... This is directed at you.. most of the time bullies are people who turn into aggressors because something is wrong in their own life. at home, with their friends, within or that they are themselves being bullied and take it out on others or want to be allowed in the "bully crowed" so they bully others to get in. Please STOP and THINK.... This is NOT RIGHT... You are hurting the world..... You are hurting Souls and it's not right.. If you are a bully, want help? Talk to someone.. You can find someone to help you with this..  If your reading this and you are a bully, you can feel free to speak with me. I won't judge you but i will help you find the help that you need....

If you are being bullied, and need someone to help you, Feel free to speak to me.. I will find the help that you need...

Complaining.... It's not cute... no really

There comes a time in life where you really have to STOP COMPLAINING.  Trying to rush the hands of time is not going to do you no good. Every day wondering when your going to find mr. mrs right. Everyday complaining because your neighbor has a nicer car. Everytime you turn around calling someone down because they have something you want, is that really what you see as positive? The universe will only, return negativity back into your life, if that is all you are sending out. You cannot hate on the world and expect the world to love you in return. You've all heard the saying "Treat people the way you want to be treated" Why would you treat the world/The Universe any differently? Why would you wake up, every morning complaining about something that you do not have, Instead of being grateful for what you DO have?...

So many people in this world don't have food, water, clothes. The simple neccessities in life, Yet they are never complaining and always grateful for the little bit that they have.  I really believe wholeheartedly, that if people in the world today became a bit more aware that the negativity they spit out is what is keeping them trapped in the sadness, bitterness and anger that they are in, things would change.

Some people complain about having been single for so long. They can never find  a lover  that will remain with them, they feel like they are always being used, someone is always walking out on them... Stop. Ask yourself something "WHY, is everyone walking out" It cannot be EVERYONE who has the same problem. The only, common thing/person here is YOU.  Take a deep look at yourself and what your saying, doing and the energy you are putting out there with these people, chances are. There is something about you negative that is pushing people away.

Now, I am not saying that you are negative to the core. no one is. We all have negative traits and positive ones. The key here is like everything else. BALANCE. You cannot be over the top with negativity because it drains people, no one wants a nagger and a complainer around them all the time. It's sucks the happiness right out of people.

So next time before you complain about what you don't got, think about what you do GOT. Think about what your doing in your own life that is causing these things around you to happen and I guarantee things will change for the positive within your life.

Why isn't your life perfect?

 If I had a dollar for every time someone told me, why can't you have the perfect life, Your psychic. I'd be Rich and living on my own Island. I am telling people everyday. I am able to help and guide other people because in helping other's there's no selfishness involved. When it comes to myself sure I get those little gut feelings that we all get, That I don't think i should get on that car, or maybe I'll take the other way home tonight.. Things of that nature, but When it comes to love, and other areas of life. I cannot help myself no matter what.

I believe Spirit blinds us from our own lives because if we would be able to see these things, we would become selfish and ungrateful of our gifts. The people around us and Life itself. We would take everything for granted. I mean Look at us. Our water is free, we waste it. Our food comes easy, we waste it. When we have good people around us, we often forget to tell them how important they are to us, daily. So why wouldn't we take advantage of our gifts if we could make our lives perfect? We are humans, by nature we are selfish creatures. We want to be happy, we seek happiness without knowing what real happiness is, so I believe it would be self destruction if we were able to see in our own lives.

Also, I believe that if we were always Happy, We really wouldn't be happy..... doesn't make sense huh? Yup! I know, We recognize Loved, happiness and joy because we have experienced, heartache, sadness and sorrow. Without the painful experiences we would not be able to experience the Joys. 

It gets a bit annoying at times when trying to help someone and they say "if you were so psychic wouldn't your life be perfect" omg!!! no.  So I hope that this opens up, a few eyes to the reasons why we cannot read/see for ourselves. ( I cannot speak for every reader as i know some tarot readers pull cards for themselves) I can't and wouldn't any way.

So again. I'm only, human. I don't have no superhuman abilities to make my life perfect or win the lottery tomorrow. BUT i can HELP YOU find true love and happiness from within  while answering your life questions.

It's like Cats & Dogs

 You ever have a Friendship or Relationship in which you argue and disagree even fight with the other person like cats and dogs do, then simply return to the normal routine shortly, after ( I am not speaking of physical violence here) I mean arguments, fussing, fighting, yelling, disagreeing, bickering. Whether its a friendship or a Relationship these are the most amazing relationships, because they are often there to present us with what has to be changed in our own personal lives. We often fight too much with these people, because they mirror parts of ourselves that we cannot stand, cannot agree with or simply, cannot work on at the present time.

Often we are arguing with a part of ourselves. Because when things calm down again you can catch yourself saying something like, we're two peas in a pot, or were soul sisters or soul mates. Either way, We are always bickering at each other and these little arguments often come quickly, like a fire who has been thrown gasoline on. a quick BURST of HEAT and INTENSE reaction. Then quickly, goes out as if it was never there to begin with. The problem with this is that is causes a stress on your body emotionally drains you over and over again. Without you noticing it. So sometimes after so many arguments with someone so close to you who you cannot seem to let go of, separate from.

It's a good Idea to evaluate yourself, See what about this person is bothering you, find out if there's something about the Issue that brews something inside you, It can sometimes be from a past life. We all need to investigate ourselves more. Because it's always easy to point the finger at the other person and deliver blame in any direction than our own. Very often however we are our own ennemie time and time again

Loving someone who hates themselves.....

We always talk about " You cannot love someone until you LOVE YOURSELF" What happens, when your on the receiving end of this situation? It's not an easy situation to love someone so much that you would do anything for them. Love them, support them, be there for them. Even when THEY do not believe in themselves. Your their wings when they cannot fly, Your their voice of reason when they give up on themselves. But, How long can you DO THIS before you start to feel like your doing EVERYTHING in the relationship? How long before you begin feeling like your putting everything in, while the other person is taking everything and not giving nothing back. Love/Relationships should come with a balance of energy exchange if your giving everything without receiving your going to go dry emotionally, feeling like you ran a marathon without a drink of water nor sneakers. If you always get and never give. Your going to end up, seeing your partner sad and dissatisfied.


It's becoming a problem with women these days, they are so eager to please their man. They will stop at nothing to make him happy, while he's taking it all in, at the end of the day does this really help him? Does it only create a bigger space for him to turn into his own self hating mode? I mean this is not only women who do this for men, some men do for their women also with extreme but for the most part it's woman who do for men, By nature we are caretakers, we want to save and heal the world.

There are some people in relationships that just want someone for the pity. If you leave me, I'll kill myself. If you leave me, I don't know what i'll do. If IF IF and it scares the other person into staying. I've realized if someone needs you THAT MUCH to survive they are not living to begin with and they need some serious guidance and help. Do not DO NOT send yourself into EMOTIONAL PRISON for someone who is living a life trapped in unhappiness and sorrow. You can only, help them so much

Its sad but at the end of the day we all have to let go of something, to follow our true calling <3