Focusing on the bad ruins it all

There are so many times where i catch myself speaking to people and at the end of my conversation with them. I'm just exhausted I feel like the world just landed on my shoulders. No matter how much you try to make a light joke, no matter how much you try to show them a bit of positive they are stuck on the negative. That really drags someone down. I wrote on my status today that if people stopped being so serious and took things light heartedly a bit more life would be so much better. The world would be a better place.

Look at children as prime examples. They don't know the worries of the world. They don't know what being bitter, angry, sour and just plain ignorant is. So they don't show any long-term emotion other than happiness. Sure they get mad and cry and scream when they want something (but that's them learning) after two minutes of that they are back to laughing and playing.  How many times can we say that something makes us angry, sad or just turns our world upside down and ten minutes later we are perfectly fine? not often. Most of us dwell on those things for whole days if not weeks.

If you learn to let things go, sure reflect on them, get mad, cry, scream and then get over it. You will see that your whole day does not have to be affected. Your whole life does not have to be shattered by something that happened that was out of your control to begin with. so many of us are spending too many hours in a day complaining, bitching and whining about things that we cannot change. So let's try to slow that down and eventually stop that. If you cannot control it, leave it alone. If it's out of your power don't try to over power it. You will only end up miserable with messed up days.

Enjoying your life, begins with you and how you handle things thrown your way.

Love Life

The Rain & The emotional Benefits

When we wake up, to seeing rain, We have a tendency to say awwww shyt, another boring rainy day. The rain is the earth cleansing itself, giving humidity to the ground in order to bring life to earth. What we need to do on rainy days is take some time to reflect on things. Cry, Write down your sorrows and problems. Then let the rain wash it away. When the sun shines again, forget about the negativity and the the attraction for the sun in your own life.

Forget about your can'ts and won'ts and focus on the I CAN and I WILL. The sun shinning again after a rainy day gives people energy an drive to go outside and do things again. So after you've flushed your heartaches with the rainy day. Your soul is ready for some positive.
So Let go of the rain and let the sunshine within you. so next time you wake up to a rainy day, don't curse. dont be dissapointed. Instead use this as your Emotional cleaning day......When the sun shines again everything will be fresh and right.......

You dont have to believe me, though...................... Try it

Seriously??? Have you stopped to think about it?

There are some clients that come to me at times and I simply cannot believe the heartache they put on their own lives. so miserable, blaming everyone except themselves for their lives.  cursing and spitting at the universe because things didn't happen the way they wanted it too, on time. I have heard this so many times I'm waiting for good news, why is it not coming im tired of this shit wow! so positive. I'm sure you are attracting positive because that's what your sending out, right? wrong! You are receiving exactly what your throwing into the universe. I love to call the universe a boomerang. It comes back at you full blast and hits you with what you put out.  Stop, for two minutes next time before complaining and actually try to but something positive out there.  

Then I have the clients who want to blame, God, The angels, The planet and even the weather because they are unhappy. I hear so often This is crap, everyday i keep asking for a sign of something good all i get is shit really? Perhaps it's because your so focused on seeing negative, that you turn a good thing into a bad thing?  The power of thinking is a strong factor in happiness. If you wake up, telling yourself your going to have a crappy, day. Guess what? You have already flicked the crappy, switch on. If you open your eyes. Thank God and the Universe for one more day, Tell yourself your going to make the most out of it. Today's going to be a good day, Your going to notice a lot of change in your life.

Sure, it's not always going to be perfect just because you told yourself,so. But your going to be mentally able to focus on fixing the mishaps, why? Because you have told yourself and accepted that at the end of the day. Today has been a good day and your going to get through it....

Happiness, comes from within. It's the TRUTH!