You have to understand....

I often get clients who ask me questions and I can clearly feel it in their hearts and souls that they are hurting very deeply. They cannot understand why a lover is not returning the love. They cannot understand why someone did not call back. They don't see why people hurt them. The truth for me is that when often I'm delivering the reading I will give the client everything that spirit gives me. If they do not rush me, because often i get the "okay okay but i don't want to know why he doesn't do it i want to know will he do it" Isn't that selfish??? Shouldn't you want to KNOW why he does or doesn't do certain things? The final result is important but you have to know why things happen.

Often the reasons why they do nor don't do certain things is more important than the actual question itself because they can help you understand your relationship or your partner better. It can help you see if it's something you can handle /deal with in the long term or something you want to deal with no longer. I often tell clients, while doing  a live session I usually need a good 10-20minutes to tell them exactly what is going on... email readings are different they are less rushed.. But live session i need at least 10-20 It takes me a while to deliver accurate information that can help you on your journey. If you want to call me to rush me and tell me "hurry up, i want to know" please call someone else. I don't give false hope, nor quick easy replies.


It's one thing to want a quick answer to something like " Am I going to get a new job? Am i going to be called for the interview? Is he/she going to be with me long-term?   but to want to know why someone has a certain behavioral pattern it's not so easy........

So please be understanding when I tell you that i cannot do it in 5mins.. this is not something that i can rush through.. It's your future after all...

Why, I'm a good Clairvoyant/Psychic for YOU

 There's always a time in our lives where we wonder What's next? Is he or She the one? Is this person or that person honest? Am I going to get that promotion? Is my finances going to get better? How about my health?  Wellll It's easy these days to log on to the internet and find a whole selection of Psychics online. The problem with this is that NOT all Psychics are LEGIT.  Not all LEGIT psychics are HONEST. 


You do not want a Reader who is going to tell you lies, Feed you what you want to hear. Your needing a reader who is going to tell you the truth. You want someone who is going to help you see the bigger picture and Your going to find comfort and strenght with your reader. Someone who is worth your money, your time and your trust will never have you leaving a reading feeling angry, bitter, sad or afraid.

I am someone who is going to ALWAYS tell you the truth even when you do not want to hear it. I am going to tell you how to fix the situation, how to make things better, brighten your path... I am going to give you ways and guidance in fixing your path to be able to live your life as happy and fulfilled as can be.  Your going to need to be patient... nothing happens over night and no one who can truly help you can tell you that they can lite a candle or kiss the moon through astral travel and all your problems are going to be solved. those are false promises.

Every good reader WILL TELL YOU that in order to see change you must put in some work yourself.. emotionally, physically and spiritually.  I am always going to be honest and provide you with accurate readings, results.  I am known for giving accurate timeframes.

People who DONT want the help

I have encountered all kinds of people from different ethnic backgrounds, ages, sexual orientations in this line of work. But it's in my own personal life that i became baffled a short time ago. When  I encounter a client, we discuss the situation. We discuss the options. We find a solution and we begin working on a better tomorrow. Not this time. This is a (friend of mine and i use the term losely) I've known this person for quite some time. This person has had a very rough life.  Family abandonments. Drugs. You name it this person has been through it.  This person has a good heart, COULD be intelligent but chooses to be reduced to ignorance.  Does not want to learn about NOTHING. If a show on television is turned on where you can learn something, she will change the channel She says "this is why i didnt like school i don't like to learn, i can't stand that  crap" Person is always talking about she's judged and no one likes her nor trusts her.

I gave this girl a chance, I took her into my life. Helped her get on her feet. cleaned her up, off the drugs quite a bit.  Then we started talking about things that happened and why she has been so angry at the world lashing out and just saying things to hurt people around her. She said.  I need help, I know i need psychological help. FINE! So, I bring it up.. I said "If you really want the psychological help, I'll arrange for you to be able to see a Psychologist. I will even pay for it, if you need me too"  She takes a long pause.... She looks up, at me and she says.....

"I know I need the help, but I don't fucking want it... fuck it.. fuck it... fuck it...."

You can Imagine the look on my face? I was feeling a lot of emotions but confusion was the one taking over, I asked her.  Why wouldn't you want the help, when you know You need it? She tells me, she does not mind the pity that she gets and that she's born to be a fuck up, so the hell with it?
I closed the chapter right there, some people might be like omg! you really should have kept helping this person. she just really needs help, shes afraid, she's this and she's that. NO.

What this person is, is SELFISH.   We all know some people like that.  They will take, abuse and use you as much as they can with the show of "im changing and i want help" but as soon as help is on the way they turn things around and just love being miserable and using their past as a crutch. Nothing will ever change. 
Sometimes, no matter how much we love the person (family member, lover, friend) We have to cut them out of our lives before they bring us, down with them

This is NOT a RANT it's the TRUTH

This is something that has been bothering me for the longest while dealing with clients. These are not "every" client. But those who are in denial and do not want to hear the truth. They Believe they do, but they really don't. I'm the best reader. I'm Amazing, I'm so nice etc... As soon as i tell them about themselves on a level they do not want to hear it's "Your tone changed, Your maybe not accurate"  NO! Have you stopped to think that maybe the truth hurts and you are not able to handle it, so blaming me is easier than admitting to YOUR faults? I mean seriously. We all do it. I EVEN DISLIKE hearing the truth sometimes, but guess what?????
It's the first step, to getting your life on the right track....  As a reader and an honest reader I believe I have to write something on my behalf in case I come across as a "bitch" at times.

I will NOT lie to you, tell you what you want to hear or make things seem lighter than they are simply because I know this would make you happy. You are going to hear only, the truth. You will hear the good and the bad...  I could lie and tell you all that you want to know and all that would make you happy, but in the end it would only hurt more when things did not turn out as you wanted them to. It would be wrong and unethical for me to SELL YOU LIES.

So at the end of the day, if you choose to leave me bad ratings, feedback or opinions because I am not lying. it's not going to change what I have to tell you. Your never going to get a lie from me, so if you want to pay for lies. Find someone who does not care about your future. because I DO.
With that being said.. Thank you to those clients of mine who want to learn, grow and get better. even when hearing the truth burns they are grateful because they Know i am HELPING them and doing it out of love.

The truth is often something that bothers us, makes us mad, sad and very angry at times because it makes sure we confront our flaws, fears and anxieties. It triggers certain things within us, that we fear the most.... in the end it's worth it though :)

This post was written rather quickly, I have two kids running around here :) I' will write a more in dept follow up

Complaining.... It's not cute... no really

There comes a time in life where you really have to STOP COMPLAINING.  Trying to rush the hands of time is not going to do you no good. Every day wondering when your going to find mr. mrs right. Everyday complaining because your neighbor has a nicer car. Everytime you turn around calling someone down because they have something you want, is that really what you see as positive? The universe will only, return negativity back into your life, if that is all you are sending out. You cannot hate on the world and expect the world to love you in return. You've all heard the saying "Treat people the way you want to be treated" Why would you treat the world/The Universe any differently? Why would you wake up, every morning complaining about something that you do not have, Instead of being grateful for what you DO have?...

So many people in this world don't have food, water, clothes. The simple neccessities in life, Yet they are never complaining and always grateful for the little bit that they have.  I really believe wholeheartedly, that if people in the world today became a bit more aware that the negativity they spit out is what is keeping them trapped in the sadness, bitterness and anger that they are in, things would change.

Some people complain about having been single for so long. They can never find  a lover  that will remain with them, they feel like they are always being used, someone is always walking out on them... Stop. Ask yourself something "WHY, is everyone walking out" It cannot be EVERYONE who has the same problem. The only, common thing/person here is YOU.  Take a deep look at yourself and what your saying, doing and the energy you are putting out there with these people, chances are. There is something about you negative that is pushing people away.

Now, I am not saying that you are negative to the core. no one is. We all have negative traits and positive ones. The key here is like everything else. BALANCE. You cannot be over the top with negativity because it drains people, no one wants a nagger and a complainer around them all the time. It's sucks the happiness right out of people.

So next time before you complain about what you don't got, think about what you do GOT. Think about what your doing in your own life that is causing these things around you to happen and I guarantee things will change for the positive within your life.

Why isn't your life perfect?

 If I had a dollar for every time someone told me, why can't you have the perfect life, Your psychic. I'd be Rich and living on my own Island. I am telling people everyday. I am able to help and guide other people because in helping other's there's no selfishness involved. When it comes to myself sure I get those little gut feelings that we all get, That I don't think i should get on that car, or maybe I'll take the other way home tonight.. Things of that nature, but When it comes to love, and other areas of life. I cannot help myself no matter what.

I believe Spirit blinds us from our own lives because if we would be able to see these things, we would become selfish and ungrateful of our gifts. The people around us and Life itself. We would take everything for granted. I mean Look at us. Our water is free, we waste it. Our food comes easy, we waste it. When we have good people around us, we often forget to tell them how important they are to us, daily. So why wouldn't we take advantage of our gifts if we could make our lives perfect? We are humans, by nature we are selfish creatures. We want to be happy, we seek happiness without knowing what real happiness is, so I believe it would be self destruction if we were able to see in our own lives.

Also, I believe that if we were always Happy, We really wouldn't be happy..... doesn't make sense huh? Yup! I know, We recognize Loved, happiness and joy because we have experienced, heartache, sadness and sorrow. Without the painful experiences we would not be able to experience the Joys. 

It gets a bit annoying at times when trying to help someone and they say "if you were so psychic wouldn't your life be perfect" omg!!! no.  So I hope that this opens up, a few eyes to the reasons why we cannot read/see for ourselves. ( I cannot speak for every reader as i know some tarot readers pull cards for themselves) I can't and wouldn't any way.

So again. I'm only, human. I don't have no superhuman abilities to make my life perfect or win the lottery tomorrow. BUT i can HELP YOU find true love and happiness from within  while answering your life questions.