It's like Cats & Dogs

 You ever have a Friendship or Relationship in which you argue and disagree even fight with the other person like cats and dogs do, then simply return to the normal routine shortly, after ( I am not speaking of physical violence here) I mean arguments, fussing, fighting, yelling, disagreeing, bickering. Whether its a friendship or a Relationship these are the most amazing relationships, because they are often there to present us with what has to be changed in our own personal lives. We often fight too much with these people, because they mirror parts of ourselves that we cannot stand, cannot agree with or simply, cannot work on at the present time.

Often we are arguing with a part of ourselves. Because when things calm down again you can catch yourself saying something like, we're two peas in a pot, or were soul sisters or soul mates. Either way, We are always bickering at each other and these little arguments often come quickly, like a fire who has been thrown gasoline on. a quick BURST of HEAT and INTENSE reaction. Then quickly, goes out as if it was never there to begin with. The problem with this is that is causes a stress on your body emotionally drains you over and over again. Without you noticing it. So sometimes after so many arguments with someone so close to you who you cannot seem to let go of, separate from.

It's a good Idea to evaluate yourself, See what about this person is bothering you, find out if there's something about the Issue that brews something inside you, It can sometimes be from a past life. We all need to investigate ourselves more. Because it's always easy to point the finger at the other person and deliver blame in any direction than our own. Very often however we are our own ennemie time and time again

Loving someone who hates themselves.....

We always talk about " You cannot love someone until you LOVE YOURSELF" What happens, when your on the receiving end of this situation? It's not an easy situation to love someone so much that you would do anything for them. Love them, support them, be there for them. Even when THEY do not believe in themselves. Your their wings when they cannot fly, Your their voice of reason when they give up on themselves. But, How long can you DO THIS before you start to feel like your doing EVERYTHING in the relationship? How long before you begin feeling like your putting everything in, while the other person is taking everything and not giving nothing back. Love/Relationships should come with a balance of energy exchange if your giving everything without receiving your going to go dry emotionally, feeling like you ran a marathon without a drink of water nor sneakers. If you always get and never give. Your going to end up, seeing your partner sad and dissatisfied.


It's becoming a problem with women these days, they are so eager to please their man. They will stop at nothing to make him happy, while he's taking it all in, at the end of the day does this really help him? Does it only create a bigger space for him to turn into his own self hating mode? I mean this is not only women who do this for men, some men do for their women also with extreme but for the most part it's woman who do for men, By nature we are caretakers, we want to save and heal the world.

There are some people in relationships that just want someone for the pity. If you leave me, I'll kill myself. If you leave me, I don't know what i'll do. If IF IF and it scares the other person into staying. I've realized if someone needs you THAT MUCH to survive they are not living to begin with and they need some serious guidance and help. Do not DO NOT send yourself into EMOTIONAL PRISON for someone who is living a life trapped in unhappiness and sorrow. You can only, help them so much

Its sad but at the end of the day we all have to let go of something, to follow our true calling <3

I'll change... This time I'll change ???

 Alright.... So we've all had someone in our own life ( relationship) or had a friend who dealt with this in a relationship. They are in a repetitive  abusive relationship. (Emotional abuse, Verbal abuse, Mental Abuse) all these are as bad as Physical Abuse. These are all situations in which the person who is dominant in the relationship, Always uses their power over the person who NEEDS. When you believe you NEED someone, You want them so much that you believe ANYTHING they are telling you. It's always the same words. " I'll change, I'm sorry I really mean it..... I'll change" Then we fall and bend the rules, AGAIN. We drop our anger and we drop our decisions of walking away. We then are allowing the abuse to continue.  These abusers don't care about changing, they will not change unless we remove ourselves from the situation and allow them to see what they are doing.

Giving them the chance, to keep abusing is NOT LOVING THEM. It's only allowing them to keep hurting you, themselves and their life. If you are a Victim of Abuse. You HAVE TO WALK AWAY. Allow the person you LOVE to get the help that they deserve. If this is really love, If this man/woman really loves you, loves the relationship, loves their family. They are going to want the help, seek the help, get the help and walk a path of righteousness. They will find a way to make themselves better.

I know, a lot of people say that " once an abuser, always an abuser" that is NOT true. Alot of people who abuse their loved ones. have MANY emotional ISSUES that they have to deal with and have repressed angers. With therapy and counseling often this helps ... THEY CANNOT CHANGE without the help.

If you really love the person in your life who is abusing you, If your friend really loves their abusive partners. Tell them to walk away, walk out and allow them to get the help they seek.... If it's really ment to be it will happen all over again, once they are emotionally, mentally and psychologically healed

Do not hang around in the Abusive relationship waiting of the change to happen because it won't as long as u fall for the " I'll change speech" You are giving them another ticket to hurt, abuse you and hurt themselves more and more over and over again...............

If you are being physically abused........ call 911 and do not hesitate to walk away.............

*Love DOES NOT HURT*
 This is a song about Spousal Abuse *Love is Blind*
 

addicted to self induced pain?

Yesss! I'm coming back with a BANG. okay not a bang *L* but at least a hollerrrr..  I have experienced a few things these last few weeks. I have been dealing with certain people who i have really tried hard to help. Actually, lost money helping, lost time helping, lost alot of energy and at the end of these three weeks I'm looking around and I cannot see anything productive that has come out of it. It's almost like i spent my whole time speaking to myself.  I have been made fun of and called "Intelligent" with a smurk face more than once. Telling me, "Oh so your so intelligent.... why do you even care"  but... It's trying to get someone to understand that LIFE IS NOT ALWAYS FAIR but ITS ALWAYS going to have a PURPOSE regardless.

There's a time when you just have to let go trying to help someone who does not want to help themselves you cannot send yourself in a hole, even into depression for making someone else's life better. There is always going to be that someone who says "I'm never drinking again, because they feel sick then soon as they are better they got the bottle in their hand" There's always going to be the person who runs back into the abuser's arms after the fight is over. There will always be the people who are attracted to sadness, hardship. Now, from what i am feeing here always is that there are victims then there are those who LOVE TO BE playing the victim role., They can be the center of attention. get all the attention and then they go right back to the situation and all over again.

There is no way that we can help these people UNTIL they are completely, aware that they are addicted to self inflicted pain. Once they begin to understand what is really going on, they can begin accepting the help that you have to offer. until then it's going to be a battle with someone who does not listen

Reading online & offline

 I've been asked by  many people recently, who have just found me online or even offline at the mall or at the store. "hey, don't you do readings? How does it work? Can you do it online? is there a difference, online/offline? So here are some answers.

I have been doing readings online since 2002. I have been doing readings offline (at my home since 2004) There's no big different for me (I cannot speak for any other psychic/clairvoyant/tarot reader or medium) But for me online or offline the connection is the same as far as the delivery of the reading and the information given by my guides that I offer my clients. The only difference between online and offline readings is the compassion and the healing that can be given to clients by being face to face with me.

A smiling face is often something that everyone needs to see. Feeling like you have a friend in someone is important and ALOT of my clients who come to me face to face tell me, they enjoy spending some time with someone talking, laughing and hearing their truths with someone face to face because it's like meeting an old friend who knows them better than they know themselves. I'm not sure if that's a good thing lol :) But I enjoy helping as much as possible.

I do my readings through Email (Email readings are very detailed and clients have been satisfied for years)
I also do readings through Yahoo messenger and Msn messenger. (live readings)

Payments are always accepted in the same way (Paypal)

My offline readings can be arranged by appointment by telephone ( You have to ask for my phone number i don't post it online)

I enjoy doing this and i do it FOR THE CLIENTS.  I am often misunderstood by those who do not understand or fear my work but for those who's lives I have touched and walk into daily.... They have good words for me... Those are the words that matter to me

You can always contact me for more information at
rosalyndavisions@yahoo.ca

The victim, Seriously. All the time?

It can happen, once or twice heck maybe three times.. BUT

There are situations in this life that we all fall into, We sometimes bump into a road we didn't want it, suffer at the hands and expense of someone else. We are sometimes, abused, neglected and we will sometimes feel alone and lonely.  But is it possible that we "also sometimes" create this for ourselves?
There are patterns with certain people, where they are always the victim. They start a rumor, at the end of the week they end up, caught and hurt (it's someone elses fault) 

They cheat on a test and end up, flunking in a class (it's someone elses fault)
They lie and cheat on their partner's get dumped. are left lonely and alone (oh it HAS TO BE something the other person did)

They are miserable and it's always because of him and her and them and anyone but themselves.

Only, once we accept that we are completely responsible for our actions and things that happen in our lives will we be able to be completely happy. It's start to stop complaining about what we don't want and act towards attracting what we do want.

no one wants a cry baby around. If your over the age of 25 and your still running to family and friends to get you through EVERYTHING because its EVERYONE's FAULT but your OWN you need a reality check. life is NOT easy. not for YOU not for ME but we have to work hard to get the happiness that we want.
accept responsibility, admit to not being perfect and watch how your life begins to change :)

Goodness.. can you be quiet?

Ever have someone in your life who you tried to help as much as possible. Whether it be a friend, lover or family member. You did everything in your power to help them get their life on track, get their heart and head on straight and then you finally realize all that hardwork and patience was a big whole waste of energy on your part because 90% of the things they told you they didn't do or did was just a bunch of made up, lies and some kind of fantasy in their own head and life? There comes a time when people like that have to be completely, cut out of your life. Why? Because as long as you keep people like this in your life, you will never progress because you are going to be drained.

Emotionally, and psychologically drained. We sometimes call these people Emotional Vampires because they suck the life, energy and happiness out of you so quickly, it's almost like spraying on cement on your body. There's so many people who don't realize that they are this way. I always call them the Lying/truths. They believe everything they tell, even if it's a lie. I mean if they tell you that they are Jesus! they are Jesus! Don't tell them no different. You ask them for the truth and honesty and they feed you "their truth" which equals a bold lie. That is not people you want to keep in your life. Clear these people out of your lives. It's not like it's a hard task to do, because you will be able to tell who these people are just from being around them you feel heavy, agitated and just confused at times. Because you cannot understand WHAT or WHY things are coming out of their mouths the way they are.

Sometimes you just gotta tell people to Just ~be QUIET~  

Love YOUR LFIE..... CLEAN UP the PEOPLE WHO SURROUND YOU :)

Stop waiting for someone to MAKE YOU LOVE YOU.

It really breaks my heart when certain people come my way and i hear them tell me that because they got left they are not worthy of a good man/woman. not worthy of happiness because something had to be wrong with them if their partner walked out on them. Perhaps the relationship, was just not ment to be. Perhaps that person was just not good enough for YOU. Perhaps there was more con's than pros in your relationship. Why is it that as soon as something goes wrong you want to turn things into being your fault.


Just because someone walks out of your life, Relationship, family, friends it does not mean that you automaticly become less of a loving person. You are suppose to love yourself no matter what. When you realize that no one can bring you down BUT YOURSELF. You will notice that you attract people that want to love you, cherish you and respect you. When you believe in giving everyone the ability to give you your worth your going to be sold short. someone is going to take advantage of you. You really need to not let people get the best of you.


When you say I AM WORTHY OF RESPECT and LOVE you will get nothing less because you won't tolerate it

Loving yourself is letting go pt1

Loving yourself begins from a deep analysis of WHY and WHAT you don't like about yourself? If you think your fat, is it because someone always told you that you were fat? If you believe your stupid, did someone always call you dumb growing up? Do you feel your not worthy of real love? did someone abandon you while you were growing up, made you feel less than others, sisters, brothers, family?  You have to really sitt there and really think about it...

Once you have done that you have to realize that NO ONE can make you feel anything that you do not let them feel. You have to find it within yourself to compliment yourself every day about at least two things. Find something your good at, cooking? dressing up? being a mother? sing? draw? do you make people laugh? do you dance well? anything. find something you are good, at. give yourself credit

Don't wait for someone to compliment you because chances are you can wait forever, people these days are cruel and rather critic than compliment. you have to find the beauty within yourself, love yourself and always be dependent on no one but yourself.  You cannot allow your past to ruin your future....

We have to accept that we have been treated bad, neglected and made to feel less than human at one point in time in our lives but are we going to let that ruin our lives forever? that is allowing those people to win over you. You need to really sit there and focus on what you want in life and not allow no one to take that away from you. no one can take your happiness away but yourself

YOU make me PULL MY HAIR.. ARRGGH

Royalty? When? We all have a specific person, a friend a lover or a family member who swears they are royalty. Like everything you do for them is never good enough, if you do something it has to be right on time, not one minute late. Everything has to be perfect for them. You have to show them the most respect and speak to them in a specific tone cause if you don't they might just think your being "smart" Now, When it comes to these people, doing something for you or anyone else for that matter.....

They are always late, You have to repeat yourself more than three times. They get an attitude when you do, like rushing them is no fun, yet they rush you like your on the clock. They always find a way to critize what you do, or don't do. They will find a flaw in the best of your efforts. These people are very annoying to be around, Yet we LOVE THEM, why?

Because these people, deep down are the most loving and caring people in the world, being a grandmother, a lover or a friend.. These people have really NO IDEA that they are being this way, You can even tell them, Your being a real idiot right now and they look right at you like HUH?!?!

It takes, time and patience ESPECIALLY if this is someone you are in a Relationship, with. You have to really, let it be known often that they are being this way if you keep it in, bottled in its not going to help you any more than if you just argued with them all the time. The best approche? cool,calm and collective. Decent, grown conversation. Without yelling, pointing fingers and major accusations

The royalty with them is often something they have no idea about so sometimes we have to let them know. YOUR NOT always RIGHT and it's OKAY for OTHER PEOPLE to have OPINIONS also.    It's a rough ride but often worth it because these people are very loyal to their friends and loved ones.

Music Lifts your Spirits

Have you ever just felt like crap in the morning, gotten in your car turned the radio on or a cd and then all of a sudden your worries were lifted from you and you felt brand new? Have you ever heard a song that you usually would not listen too ie: a different genre. Then all of a sudden you feel like you could move mountains? This is because music is letters and sounds put together in every letter there is a sound that resonates through our souls. With every melodie there is also a sound that is also linked to our soul and that put together into a song, which carry emotions are cleansing and healing to the soul.

There are times if you listen to a bit more more of the same song or a little less of one. You would feel extremely better. Music is much more than what we perceive it to be as listeners only someone who composes the melodie/sounds, lyrics and other could possibly understand exactly what it means. I suggest that you start playing with music in order to figure it out for yourself, what works for you. what makes you want to grab a hold of your life, change it and make the most of your life. Try It. You won't be disappointed

There are a few songs based on melodies and letters alone mixed with the beats that are for uplifting I am going to suggest them in here and go ahead, try and see what happens :)


Beautiful you are (women especially)
fireflies (listen to this with your eyes closed)
Only Time
Feed The hungry

These are just a few... There's also vibrations to EVERY name on the planet. Yes! The way you spell your name can signify your luck in love, life, careers and even financially.

The Media is full of crap

There is so much hate in the world, these days. Everytime you turn on the tv someone has shot someone, someone got stabbed, someone was murdered, abducted, raped, abused, neglected.

Why can we never turn on the tv and see someone who has given a dollar to someone in need? Someone who helped someone do the dishes (as simple as it seems) someone who helped a man or woman who was stranded.  Of course not because media feeds off the negative and the bad things that happen in the world only makes me believe it attracts more and more.
People want to be famous or celebrities these days? kill someone or get pregnant at 15 your gonna be on the news hell you might even get your own show. It makes no sense whatsoever. I really want people to try everyday  to do something kind for someone else. You never know how much you can change someone's life with a simple act of kindness.

When you do something for someone do it from the heart, not with intentions of getting something back or getting recognition for it because then you might be let down do it because you want TO DO IT. If you take care of other people, the Universe will take care of you and BLESS YOU
It's YOUR life, LOVE it but allow someone else to LOVE theirs Also.

Some ME time PLEASE

There is only a certain amount of  Readings and Helping people someone like me can do A DAY. I LOVE MY CLIENTS. I LOVE OFFERING THEM GUIDANCE. But sometimes people have to understand that I NEED REST too. Without rest how can I be full of energy to help you and other people who need help? I do work around the clock, if someone needs me, I WILL wake up. But that does not mean that I DONT go to sleep. sometimes I do SLEEP and when I DO. I LOVE IT *L* SO please try to understand that I am only human.

I think that is the biggest misconception of Clairvoyant and Psychics is that because we do and know what we know that we can somehow function on other realms than regular people. no. We eat and Sleep and drink water like the rest of society. So next time someone is not online when you need them please, understand and don't send hate mail and aggressive letters because it won't help your case. I am not saying this is something that has happened to me, but it has happened to other people i know that clients expect them to be there twenty four seven  seven days a week. That's not possible.

Now Speaking of me, time. YOU all need me time.. So every day EVERYONE should take 1 hour for themselves. no MATTER how BUSY you are. You need some time to relax and take care of you. LIVE YOUR LIFE and LOVE YOUR LIFE