Everyone wants happiness?

Everyone says "when will i find my soulmate, when will i find the one, when will i" How about "when will you love yourself" We all have off and on days, some days we love ourselves to pieces, the next day we are damaging to ourselves. We give so much to people around us, forget to love and nurture ourselves. The truth is, sometimes we have someone in our lives that is "the one" but we are so unhappy within, we are so stuck in the past, living off past fears and past baggage that we cannot see the current relationship for what it's worth. The good and the bad, but mostly the good because when we are victims of living in the past. We overlook the good and gravitated immediately to the bad, that is because we gravited towards things that we know. We are familiar with pain and heartache so we go towards the familiar. If you are not accustomed to good, happy feelings you are not going to reconize them, nor feel the urge to go foward to them...  It's best when in a relationship to always make sure you are not living in the past with your current partner because often we lash out, have insecurities and even make our relationships unhealthy because we are living in the past.

Once you begin to love and cherish yourself as much as you cherish your partner you will see that the need for him or her to give you what you feel is lacking wont be there because you will be giving yourself what you need.  Happiness comes from within. a very close friend of mine told me once while we were talking

"You never allow someone to love you less than you love yourself"  It's good advice but this means if you don't believe in yourself or think highly of yourself, you are going to submit to abuse. No one should do that.....

It's a new year..... get to loving YOURSELF

Complete Heartbreak

I have not posted lately, My heart has been in so much pain over this Haiti donate for the kids  situation. I've been watching the news. reading the news. perhaps a little bit too much because it's overwhelming and it's such a tragedy. so many lives forsaken. so many homeless people. so many orphans. This breaks my heart because It reminds me of what my grandma use to tell us when we were kids and waisting food.  She would say "You better eat that, someone somewheres would jump to the moon to get a piece of that" and that's the truth. people readind this, you don't need that extra pair of shoes, new nintendo game, new purse. You CAN survive without these material things. The people in Haiti need food, water, medical supplies this is something that they cannot live without..... I read on cnn  that doctors are not having too, operate on people washing with vodka and using a hacksaw... because of lack of supplies... so before you complain about how bad your life is because someone burnt your food or brought your food home late, your wife forgot to cook, it could be worst............... there are hundreds of thousands of people who would trade places with you at this moment in time, without a single thought in the world............ please keep them in your Prayers

I Love  you Haiti and I am Praying for You and Your people.
Haiti mon cherie..... Je T'aime par sa que sais creole, frere et soeur

There is no need to lie

There are so many times where i hear about or see another "psychic" tell bold lies to a client in order to keep them coming back. That being said what i mean is, sometimes a relationship you can see right away that it won't work but psychics tell them it will work so they keep coming back, a relationship is going to work but a psychic tell them it's going to fail unless.... so they keep coming back"  That just really burns my behind. I cannot for the love of me understand why people would choose  to lie to a person who turns to you for guidance. It's just so unethical and wrong.  I have gotten many angry clients at the end of a session, even gotten slammed in feedbacks and ratings for telling the truth. But them knowing that they can depend on me, is more important than the amount of stars in my little basket. I don't feel the need to lie, to big up, myself. 

I believe that a reading, is about uplifting and truths. It's about finding the source of problems, ways to manage them and possible outcomes. I don't believe that a reader should try to use scare tactics on clients. I am in no way against "spell casters" because, I personally know some great people who can do great work. But do not ever ever ever fall for the candle is going to cost you 450$ 

I don't care about how big the candle is, don't no one should ever try to take your money at that amount for a spell... always always do your research

I Love my clients,  I don't lie to them to make them happy and this is why  I Love them. If your looking for the truth with no fairytale readings. You can come to me

Introducing.... ME!

Born Clairvoyant with a zap of Empath. I am able to feel the emotions,actions and situations taking place around people and their loved ones. I am viewed by Society as a "Psychic" I rather be called Clairvoyant. Although to many it is the same thing, Personally I feel that it's more humane. Society and rip off artists have given the word "Psychic" a feel of superiority on people. I am not a Crystal ball and I am also not a wish basket.... What's a WishBasket? It means I am not going to lie to you and tell you what you want to hear. I am going to deliver the truth whether it hurts or not. If it hurts now, the sooner you can begin Healing. If someone leads you on with false hope. false promises you tie yourself to a person or a situation longer than needed. The harder the healing process will be so with me, It's the Truth. No fairytale readings and again, I'm not a wish Basket.

Every post i make, Every word I say, is something I mean from my heart. I am fully aware that life is not all rosie and wonderful and i never try to make it as such. Certain things in life are not fair, pretty or even decent. I don't try to find excuses. Reality is harsh at times. It is what It Is.

I'm fairly new at this whole blogging thing, but I learn rather quickly so it should be an Interesting Year.

Happy New Years to Everyone have a BLESSED  2010