The fear of change... WILL make your life hard.

There are times when we are so trapped into a downward spiral of self hate that the thought of change makes you feel sick. What if? What if not? What If?  These questions keep you back.... What if I end up alone and lonely if i leave this abusive relationship? You can answer that two ways,
What if i  leave and i'm soo happy and/or What if i stay and he/she kills me?

Don't you think that there is often a good reason to use a what if? but instead we use the what if's as negative statements and thoughts and it keeps us in the situations we are in. People are so afraid of the new, of the unknown, of change. They rather stay in their rotten livestyles, abusive relationships, drug infested life  than risk  feeling something brand new.

Self hate also comes from saying.. I hate my life. I hate that i don't have nothing. I hate that i'm broke. I hate that i'm trapped in this loveless marriage/relationship. I hate. I hate. I Hate. okay, so now that we established what you hate.  WHAT are YOU DOING to CHANGE your situation???
aaaaaaah!!!! There's the question right there... Isn't it time you start doing something to better your life, rather than complaining about what you don't  like? don't fear change.. it's for the better..

go! go! go!!   It's your life.. LIVE IT and LOVE IT

The Rain & The emotional Benefits

When we wake up, to seeing rain, We have a tendency to say awwww shyt, another boring rainy day. The rain is the earth cleansing itself, giving humidity to the ground in order to bring life to earth. What we need to do on rainy days is take some time to reflect on things. Cry, Write down your sorrows and problems. Then let the rain wash it away. When the sun shines again, forget about the negativity and the the attraction for the sun in your own life.

Forget about your can'ts and won'ts and focus on the I CAN and I WILL. The sun shinning again after a rainy day gives people energy an drive to go outside and do things again. So after you've flushed your heartaches with the rainy day. Your soul is ready for some positive.
So Let go of the rain and let the sunshine within you. so next time you wake up to a rainy day, don't curse. dont be dissapointed. Instead use this as your Emotional cleaning day......When the sun shines again everything will be fresh and right.......

You dont have to believe me, though...................... Try it

A new begining for us

So now that i've spent some time discussing what i WILL not deal with. I can now begin on the positive things. I can focus on those who want to be helped. focus on bringing the positive and the love back into yourself. I know it was a negative blog to begin with. (It was brought to my attention) BUT. I  had to set things straight before.

To save me some time, but most of all to save you some time. if you wanted to hear lovely fairtytales. You were wasting your time with me. :) I am going to try to post more often in order to touch on more subjects.  I hope everyone is having a wonderful day and i hope everyone is looking forward to some positive things coming from me. :)  It's going to be still real and to the point. I just won't be focusing on the clients who DONT want to help themselves. I will be writing for those of you who can use the help and the energy coming from me... I look forward to hearing from you :)

*Love Life*