Friday, May 7, 2010

Focusing on the bad ruins it all


There are so many times where i catch myself speaking to people and at the end of my conversation with them. I'm just exhausted I feel like the world just landed on my shoulders. No matter how much you try to make a light joke, no matter how much you try to show them a bit of positive they are stuck on the negative. That really drags someone down. I wrote on my status today that if people stopped being so serious and took things light heartedly a bit more life would be so much better. The world would be a better place.

Look at children as prime examples. They don't know the worries of the world. They don't know what being bitter, angry, sour and just plain ignorant is. So they don't show any long-term emotion other than happiness. Sure they get mad and cry and scream when they want something (but that's them learning) after two minutes of that they are back to laughing and playing.  How many times can we say that something makes us angry, sad or just turns our world upside down and ten minutes later we are perfectly fine? not often. Most of us dwell on those things for whole days if not weeks.

If you learn to let things go, sure reflect on them, get mad, cry, scream and then get over it. You will see that your whole day does not have to be affected. Your whole life does not have to be shattered by something that happened that was out of your control to begin with. so many of us are spending too many hours in a day complaining, bitching and whining about things that we cannot change. So let's try to slow that down and eventually stop that. If you cannot control it, leave it alone. If it's out of your power don't try to over power it. You will only end up miserable with messed up days.

Enjoying your life, begins with you and how you handle things thrown your way.

Love Life

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