Love YOU be easy on YOURSELF

Let's be honest, no matter how beautiful you are. No matter how wonderful your life is. Your job is. Your kid(s) is/are. You will have one of those days where you wake up, feel like the world is sitting on you. That's one of those days that you are being tested. Stumble towards the sink, grab yourself a big tall glass of cold fresh water. Walk yourself into the bathroom or where your nearest mirror is. Smile. Smile at yourself, because you are BEAUTIFULL. No one, Nothing. Not words. No someone else's actions towards you. Should make you feel any less of a person.

You can sit there and ask yourself, all day "WHY ME?" But at the end of the day feeling sorry for yourself, has not be productive you haven't done anything to make your life better. To even get you out of the situation that your why-me'ing about. You haven't been progressive at all.  Instead ask yourself, WHY NOT ME, when looking at horrific moments in the world. You will soon realize that you are Blessed, more than you know.

It's easy to lose faith and confidence in yourself when it seems like the more you do, the harder you try. The more changes you make NO ONE NOTICES. YET if you forget one little thing everyone wants to point it out.

I've had clients tell me, no matter what i do, it goes unnoticed but if i mess up, a little bit. everyone notices. You know what? That's okay.... There''s nothing in life that will get you moving like a pack of hating critics.
To be honest at the end of the day, it does not matter WHO thinks WHAT of you. as long as you are respectful and loving to yourself and your children. The world will keep going if you don't do the dishes for once. If you take a nap, if you go get your hair done instead of cooking supper for someone. Eat out. Breathe easy. Do something FOR YOU. You will notice that the world will feel less heavy...
but don't believe me................ TRY IT