Complaining.... It's not cute... no really

There comes a time in life where you really have to STOP COMPLAINING.  Trying to rush the hands of time is not going to do you no good. Every day wondering when your going to find mr. mrs right. Everyday complaining because your neighbor has a nicer car. Everytime you turn around calling someone down because they have something you want, is that really what you see as positive? The universe will only, return negativity back into your life, if that is all you are sending out. You cannot hate on the world and expect the world to love you in return. You've all heard the saying "Treat people the way you want to be treated" Why would you treat the world/The Universe any differently? Why would you wake up, every morning complaining about something that you do not have, Instead of being grateful for what you DO have?...

So many people in this world don't have food, water, clothes. The simple neccessities in life, Yet they are never complaining and always grateful for the little bit that they have.  I really believe wholeheartedly, that if people in the world today became a bit more aware that the negativity they spit out is what is keeping them trapped in the sadness, bitterness and anger that they are in, things would change.

Some people complain about having been single for so long. They can never find  a lover  that will remain with them, they feel like they are always being used, someone is always walking out on them... Stop. Ask yourself something "WHY, is everyone walking out" It cannot be EVERYONE who has the same problem. The only, common thing/person here is YOU.  Take a deep look at yourself and what your saying, doing and the energy you are putting out there with these people, chances are. There is something about you negative that is pushing people away.

Now, I am not saying that you are negative to the core. no one is. We all have negative traits and positive ones. The key here is like everything else. BALANCE. You cannot be over the top with negativity because it drains people, no one wants a nagger and a complainer around them all the time. It's sucks the happiness right out of people.

So next time before you complain about what you don't got, think about what you do GOT. Think about what your doing in your own life that is causing these things around you to happen and I guarantee things will change for the positive within your life.