Loving someone who hates themselves.....

We always talk about " You cannot love someone until you LOVE YOURSELF" What happens, when your on the receiving end of this situation? It's not an easy situation to love someone so much that you would do anything for them. Love them, support them, be there for them. Even when THEY do not believe in themselves. Your their wings when they cannot fly, Your their voice of reason when they give up on themselves. But, How long can you DO THIS before you start to feel like your doing EVERYTHING in the relationship? How long before you begin feeling like your putting everything in, while the other person is taking everything and not giving nothing back. Love/Relationships should come with a balance of energy exchange if your giving everything without receiving your going to go dry emotionally, feeling like you ran a marathon without a drink of water nor sneakers. If you always get and never give. Your going to end up, seeing your partner sad and dissatisfied.


It's becoming a problem with women these days, they are so eager to please their man. They will stop at nothing to make him happy, while he's taking it all in, at the end of the day does this really help him? Does it only create a bigger space for him to turn into his own self hating mode? I mean this is not only women who do this for men, some men do for their women also with extreme but for the most part it's woman who do for men, By nature we are caretakers, we want to save and heal the world.

There are some people in relationships that just want someone for the pity. If you leave me, I'll kill myself. If you leave me, I don't know what i'll do. If IF IF and it scares the other person into staying. I've realized if someone needs you THAT MUCH to survive they are not living to begin with and they need some serious guidance and help. Do not DO NOT send yourself into EMOTIONAL PRISON for someone who is living a life trapped in unhappiness and sorrow. You can only, help them so much

Its sad but at the end of the day we all have to let go of something, to follow our true calling <3